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he won't initiatate conversation at all


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 4:43 pm

This guy I know is really cute and i know he thinks I am too, but he won't initiatate conversation at all, except maybe hi or to ask what was the homework was. I have tried to talk to him but everytime I get near him I act like a total wuss. AND he is always near his friends and they don't like me. I've tried notes and phone calls (which he answers), but everytime we get to the subject of going out, he always hangs up.!!!! I just don't understand him. What should I do?????????!--------michelle

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How do I let him know


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 4:25 pm

I'm a female and is 22yrs of age.


Well I've been talking to this guy for 7mos now and I really don't know if he's ready to be serious. He always introduce me as his lady friend. How tell him that i want more than just a good friend with benefits and how do i know if he really wants to be with me like that?

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how do i get him to notice me ?


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 3:10 pm

I am 13 and i'm going into 7th grade. I go to this day camp, and, i am an aide there. There is this guy there, that I think is really hot, and I always catch him staring at me. I know his sister pretty well, but, she is two years older than me, this guy is on my grade, but, doesn't go to my school, and in camp, we have no classes together. I really want to get to know him, though. I think he knows my first name. He has smiled at me a couple times, but, we've never actually talked. how do I get to know him, by letting him take the first move? please help me because he seems like an amazing guy! :]

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play hard to get??


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 2:51 pm

almost 16 female.

I like more than one guy. 5 to be exact. and if one of them asked me out, i would go out with any of them. but heres the thing, my friends say that im too shy and that i should make the first move. (btw im not even friends with any of these guys) so all of my friends say that i should send them an IM and be like hey whats up. now im really desperate for a boyfriend so i dont know if i should first be friends with all of these guys and see who makes a move first or just go for one guy and play hard to get.

or should i even play hard to get? because im so desperate and i was thinking maybe i should just straight out tell one of the guys that i really like him... what do you all think?? help!

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future lesbo?


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 2:36 pm

16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does

for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?





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about a guy


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:38 pm

15/f

hey i have a question.. i recently met my friends cousin that is a grade younger than us.. (were sophmores and hes a freshman) and hes really nice and stuff but we only hung out once with a group of people and then i text him sometimes but do you think it would be weird to like him because he is a grade younger than me? and i am always the one to text him first.. do you think that means anything or do you think we just need to hang out more? because i layed off the texting a bit so he wouldnt think im annoying or desperate and i want to hang out with him more its just that i hope my friend doesn't mind even though he has a girlfriend (my friend)

thanks in advance! :)

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Getting a boyfriend


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:30 pm

I have a serious problem with flirting. Everytime I flirt with a guy,they seem totally turned off. I don't say mean things to them or bore them with stupid one liners. What is the best way to get a guy's attention?

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getting over someone


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:26 pm

my boyfriend and me broke up like 3 months ago but im still not over him!=[ whats a good way to get over him?!

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I want to make my boyfriend happy


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:24 pm

I have this problem in me that is negative thinking mind. I keep thinking of the past experience with my ex's and how they betrayed my trust in them.

I am in a love relationship now and i keep thinking that my boyfriend is also like my ex's when he has not even hurt me before.

He knows about my negative thinking and has helped me to put on a positive mind always.It doesn't seem to work.

Can you help me out here? What should I do to keep this relationship to last forever?

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I think I love him but I am afraid... (sorry its long)


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:23 pm

Back in February I started dating a guy whom I had been very close with ever since last summer. We would talk to each other about personal things and such. He was having a rough time with this girl for awhile, and he would talk to me about how he felt and I helped him through it all. It wasn't weird at all though because I had a boyfriend at the time and so we never considered being together in a relationship.

However, when my boyfriend broke up with me in January, things changed. I went to see him one night- just to talk and I needed someone to cheer me up because by that time he had basically become my best friend. To make a long story short, by the end of that night we had made out, and everything seemed comfortable...

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like a boy/shyyy


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 11:01 am

okay, so i reallly like this kid mike, and the other night we were hanging out with a group of people but me & him flirted like a lottt, and went away from everyone else a few times. i thought it went well..then my friend talked to him and he like said i acted really shyy and that i was quiet//not really into himm but that he liked me..now i'm mad at myself and i dont know what to do. i've hooked up w. guys before i just get really nervous around him. i feel like i've just ruined everything :( should i do anything or just try to act better the next time we hang out?

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Boyfriend opening up.


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 5:33 am

Ever since my boyfriends x from high school *his first "love"* broke his heart he doesn't get attached to anyone or tell anyone his feelings how do i get him to open up to me? I really do care about him and I wont break his heart..

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Guy I Like


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 5:31 am

I like this guy, it's my boyfriends best friend... kind of bad I know. This guy really isn't what most would consider attractive hes a real big guy but i love his personality he's really cool.. i have noticed this more and more since my boyfriend treats me like crap. I don't think this guy would do that to his friend though.. what should I do about this...? I mean me and this guy hang out sometimes.. should I tell him wussup

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Before He Goes


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 2:44 am

16/f
I was dating this guy for a few months while he was on house arrest [Don't worry he's innocent].Now he might be leaving for boot camp. How do I convince my parents to let me go to his house to see him [[since he can't leave because of the house arrest]] before he goes? They know he's on house arrest and that we've dated AND I've been over there with him three times before with my parents permission.

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obsessively curios.


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 2:33 am

my boyfriend was an ass. i dumped him. but i cant keep myself off his myspace checking up on him. we are both the jealous types. throughout the whole relationship we'd get iffy about either of us talking to other girls/guys. now that we're apart i have to see if he's been talking to other girls. i hate it, but i want to know. on the other hand, signs of him flirting/dating/falling someone else would hurt me a lot and id be pissed, so quite frankly i DONT want to know. how can i stop this madness?

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When a girl ask a guy the question...


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 2:26 am

Okay, why do guys ALWAYS freak out when they hear their girlfriend ask them this question: "Do you love me?" I don't see what the big issue is. It doesn't mean the end of our relationship, does it?

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i need 2 kno cuz i hate waiting!


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 2:24 am

ok so recently, through a mutual friend, i found out this guy liked me. me and him are hanging out along with taht mutual friend and one of my friends on friday night because i dont know him that well but i am positive he likes me becuase he has told a lot of people and hes super nice. i was talking to this mutual friend of mine recently, though, and she said something with him was new, but i would find out in a couple of weeks, and it was not her place to tell me because he should tell me himself. later that day i talked to another mutual friend of mine and she said he would have a surprise for me that i would get a hint to the next couple of days. i thought this meant he was going to ask me out relatively soon after we hang out because i ...

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revenge


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 1:30 am

my boyfriend basically cheated on me, now i want to get REVENGE. i dont want to hurt anybody or vandalize property or whatever, i just want to get even and bring him to his knees. any ideas? please dont say oh be the bigger person dont do that.. yeah i am the bigger person im not the one who cheated.. i just need to have a little fun and this will certainly do it. its all in good fun. im 17 hes 18 and we both live with our parents.

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my girlfriend


Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:46 am

hey what's up my name's chip. My question is I have a new girlfriend we have been going out for 2 weeks. I have been friends with her for 5 years though and we have hooked up in the past but nothing serious. I think this relationship will go a long way. Tonite I am taking her out to dinner and I want to get her something just to make her feel special and show her how much I care about her what should I do?

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Posted Monday July 21 2008, 12:33 am

ok well me and my boyfriend are going out for about 5 days now and i like him and all..its just i dont get to see him..like at all..i dont know if i should break up with him because i like him but then i dont its weird what should i do?


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