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getting over someone
my boyfriend and me broke up like 3 months ago but im still not over him!=[ whats a good way to get over him?!
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i think you should just give it time..it took me almost a year to get over one guy and i tried to commit suicide over him! well anyways do be stupid and do something like me but stop thinking about him so much, hang out with friends, and most important talk about your feelings so that you dont do anything stupid.
i hope i helped ! l0l =]
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There's nothing wrong with still have feelings for an ex lover, But there's plenty of ways to help you get over it.
* Try moving on, Meeting new guys/girls.
* Hang out with your friends more often.
* Everytime your song comes on the radio, Turn the station.
* Delete/throw away pictures of them.
* Find a new crush, they could be a whole lot better.
* Ask yourself what might be in his head or his heart; it takes two people to be in a relationship and even though you feel the way that you do, maybe it was meant to be this way. Save your love for someone who feels the same way about you!
Hope I helped.
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It's okay not to be over someone you've broken up with a few months ago. If you two were together for a long time and/or you really, deeply cared about him and the relationship, then it makes sense for it to take a long time to get over him.
It really isn't easy to get over a breakup, but I find that a few things seem to help me the most. FIRST, try to go out more with your friends, particularly the ones who are single. Try making an effort to go out and have a good time, without sitting and dwelling on your ex, or even talking about him. When you're with your friends, just focus on having fun and try not to let your ex be the topic of conversation. Hey, you never know, you might even meet someone when you're out with friends. SECOND, try not to mope around the house too much. It doesn't help with getting over an ex, or anything else that might be stressing you out. Go out somewhere- to the gym, walking- exercising helps clear your head and also makes you feel stronger and more positive. It also helps to have a friend to go walking/exercising with. THIRD, try not to think about the relationship too much. It sounds obvious, but if you keep thinking about the "good times," or how much you loved him, etc., you're only going to miss him more. When you find yourself thinking about your ex too much, tell yourself something like, "it's over and done with., now it's time for me to move on." It's okay to be happy for the times you shared, but you really do have to move on for your own sake. It can be very empowering for you to remind yourself that you are your own person and can stand strong with or without a man (or guy) in your life. Just think positive thoughts, and remind yourself that you are strong and can get through this just fine. When the habit comes around to bug you, try some of the above pointers, and you should be alright.
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Get rid of mainly everything you have that you got when you were with him or that he gave to you. Try and avoid people that would talk about him a lot. Keep yourself busy- read a book, keep a journal of your moods and such, clean the house, clean your room, myspace, hanging out with friends, etc.
Just keep yourself busy and try looking for someone else. That's the best medicine I can think of.
Or you could always take a picture of him and throw darts at it. Haha.
Just do your best to keep your mind off of him & you'll get over him before you know it.
hope i helped. let me know. =]
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