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like a boy/shyyy
okay, so i reallly like this kid mike, and the other night we were hanging out with a group of people but me & him flirted like a lottt, and went away from everyone else a few times. i thought it went well..then my friend talked to him and he like said i acted really shyy and that i was quiet//not really into himm but that he liked me..now i'm mad at myself and i dont know what to do. i've hooked up w. guys before i just get really nervous around him. i feel like i've just ruined everything :( should i do anything or just try to act better the next time we hang out?
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yea you should maybe you should talk more to him and dont be afraid to let yourself go if u really him like you say you do and he really likes you like your friend said he does dont be afraid to get out there and have some fun im not saying get crazy and go all out im just saying be care free and dont care about other people think thats probably you was a little shy go for it and tell him how you feel
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First off, don't be mad at yourself. Everybody gets shy at some point. That's probably a sign that you really like him.
With that said, don't stress about it. The next time you see him, talk with him as you normally would. Be yourself. A guy friend of mine gave me some really good advice once: If you change yourself so a guy will notice you, when you do finally get together, he won't really know the real you.
Makes sense right? So if you get shy around him, so be it. That's you. If he doesn't like it, that's his loss. Because if you force yourself on him or change your demeanor on purpose to get noticed, he'll be in for a real shock when you two get together and you're different.
Let him know though that you are into him. Just be like "You know, I really do like you. I just get shy sometimes but whatever" You want to be a confident you...but the keyword is "you".
Good luck!
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