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Guy I Like


Question Posted Monday July 21 2008, 5:31 am

I like this guy, it's my boyfriends best friend... kind of bad I know. This guy really isn't what most would consider attractive hes a real big guy but i love his personality he's really cool.. i have noticed this more and more since my boyfriend treats me like crap. I don't think this guy would do that to his friend though.. what should I do about this...? I mean me and this guy hang out sometimes.. should I tell him wussup

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Cux answered Monday July 21 2008, 9:15 pm:
If your boyfriend treats you like crap, I would first address him about that. Let him know you don't feel like he's treating you right, and give him a chance to correct himself. Maybe he doesn't know?

If he doesn't shape up, well then maybe you could pursue his best friend, but like Laura said, not right away. I would give it at least a few weeks. Like you said, he probably wouldn't do what your boyfriend is doing, so that may be a better option for you.

--Jack
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LOL_x0x answered Monday July 21 2008, 12:53 pm:
Tell your boyfriend the truth. If you feel like he treats you like crap and you don't want to be with him, end things with him.


Then, if you DO decide to go after his friend, give it some time. Don't rush into it, as that will cause tension in your boyfriend and his friend's relationship.


-Laura. (16-f)

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Razhie answered Monday July 21 2008, 10:39 am:
If your boyfriend treats you like crap, dump him. Don't cheat. Dont' even talk about cheating. That would make you a notsonice person.

If you want to let your boyfriends best friend know about your feelings, tell him after you've broken up with his friend. That way, it's not cheating AND you can sure that it's not just a rebound either. Jumping from one relationship into another is a good way to get stuck with someone who might be a bit better then your ex, but still isn't exactly what you want for yourself.

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VeNzUeLa answered Monday July 21 2008, 8:04 am:
First le your current boyfriend know that you don't have the feelings for him you once had, and that feelings are growing for someone else, and the main cause may be that your current boyfriend doesn't treat you the best way he should be, and you don't feel like he's treating you well. See what your current boyfriend says and/or does, if he changes or something. I feel that the main reason your feelings have changed was because your boyfriend began changing, so if you are still open to accepting your boyfriend if he changes, then you can do what you want, if not, then tell your boyfriend's friend that you like him. And then see how things work... :)

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