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How do I let him know
I'm a female and is 22yrs of age.
Well I've been talking to this guy for 7mos now and I really don't know if he's ready to be serious. He always introduce me as his lady friend. How tell him that i want more than just a good friend with benefits and how do i know if he really wants to be with me like that?
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Just sit down and tell him. Tell him that you don't mean to hurt him and that would be the last thing you wanna do, he should understand.
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"Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?"
-Laura. (16-f)
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I would wait for the right moment then tell him. like when he makes a joke or says something that could have a seconded meaning to it, like i like you a lot. you could say enough to let me stop being your friend with benefits and maybe start a serious relationship? Try finding some loop hole in the words he says that tell him up front.
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You may want to sit down and have a talk with your guy friend. Tell him that you are ready to take the relationship to the next level. Let him know that you don't want to be introduced as his "lady friend" and that you would perfer to be introduced as his Girlfriend. Let him know what you want and how you feel. As him what he wants in the future and ask him how he feels about taking the relationship to the next level. You should pretty much tell if he wants to be serious but his reaction and his response.
Best of Luck
-BahaiMa22
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