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my guy problems


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 8:09 am

ok so i met this guy his name is travis hes 22 and me and him have been friends for a few weeks
well we know we like each other and stuff but theres the problem of him living in a different county from me and i know my parents won't let me date him because hes 22 and im just 16 but my problem is my foster sister jaymie found out i was talking to him and she just blew up about it and started bitching me and him out calling him on his cellphone and stuff which wasn't to good so me and him taled online and stuff and we decided we shouldn't talk because i didn't think it was right what they did . the problem is i really miss him hes the one person i could talk to about anything . the worse thing about this is my real sister casey was th...

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Introuble Uh Oh!?


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 4:14 am

So,in our school they dont allow boy/girl relationships...All the school found out...and it came passin to the principal...the principal called us to the office to talk to us....She told us if me and my boyfriend are together...we said were just friends We lied about it!and she said if they saw us 6inches again the'll call our parents......so were tryin ourself to be apart...this doesnt involve breakin up!but i mean how do we not make it obvious to the whole school
like for example were just like friends, friends?HELP!!

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why dont guys like me?!


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 4:10 am

so i am a sixteen year old incoming senior. I have a good group of close friends and a large group of acquaintances. I get along with basically everyone. I can be shy in certain circustsnces but for the most part I'm outgoing and like being around people. For this summer I'm hostessing at a restaurunt at the beach, three hours away from home. I'm living with my older brother. My boss always compliments me and is in disbelief that I'm only sixteen. A group of friends also live and work here for the summer aswell.
I am pretty normal when it comes to my looks. I'm quite skinny, have naturally straight blonde hair, blue/green eyes. My friends say I have a cute butt, and that it makes up for my lack of breast-age. My skin is pretty good a...

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relationship wasn't supposed to happen


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 2:17 am

OK, so recently a guy friend and I began dating. What started out as a summer fling (since I'm moving 2.5 hrs away in Aug) somehow just turned into a relationship. At first I was very happy and I liked Matt a lot. But recently I have noticed a few aspects about his personality that really turn me off. He tries to be a bad boy, which he is not at all, and he is very naive and easily influenced. He tries so hard. In short, he's too immature for me. I think he would be fabulous as a friend, he's really funny and crazy, but I don't want to stay with him forever or anything like that. Also, there's really no passion b/w us. Which is a must-have for me. Plus, I'm going off to college and I need to be single. I fear that he is taking this relation...

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online


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 2:11 am

is it ok to have like online realationships as long as you have a defined like between your online life and real life?

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he wont talk to me


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 12:51 am

16/f

ok. so there is this guy named jeffrey and he and i have been on and off liking each other for over two years. we would talk, become really good friends and usually ending up making out or something then we would just stop talking and eventually he would call me again and the process would repeat. so we stated talking again in march and in may he ended up taking my virginity. he knew i was a virgin and he was reallly sweet. well he just graduated and he drinks all the time and does some drugs. and we arnt talking. i hevnt talked to him in a month or so and im really upset because i feel used. i know he didnt use me because he is too sweet and i know he cares about me but im still so hurt and depressed. what should i do?


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i like my best guy friend......but


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 12:27 am

Ok so here it goes.I like my best guy friend but idk if he likes me back.I dont know if i should tell him how I feeel or if I should lock it up inside me and forget i like him.I dont know how to show him the way I feel about him with out him getting all creeped out.I have liked him for almost a year now and thought about asking him back out.him and I dated for a week then we broke up cuz I was too young for him at that time. now he is going on 18 and I am 16.I likee him so much that i think i maybe falling in love with him.He is so sweet,down to earth,caring,hot,and everything i dreamed of having in a bf.I wish I knew of an easy non creepy way to tell him i like him.If anyone has any advice whatsoever please let me know.Thanks a million.
Sis1234

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How do i know my bf rwally likes me and is not using me?


Posted Sunday July 27 2008, 12:16 am

I have a bf and i cant tell if he really likes me or not. can u please help me?

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Love life........=(


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 10:03 pm

How do i find a bf?? I'm going to be freshman this yr. and i want a bf really bad!

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well its complicated i love my boyfriend but he is moving


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 6:09 pm

i love my boyfriend but he is moving and there is no possible way we could be together long distance cause my parents would make it impossible...but i still like my ex (who is still single) and i dont know if i should just get back with him or if i should stay single...either way im still going to miss the boyfriend im with now and i know that my ex could never take his place....i dont want to be alone in this!!!

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i dont know what to do here


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 6:07 pm

ok i know this is like my 4th question in one day

theres this guy i like, we'll call him Joe. Joe knows i like him and he says he doesn't feel the same. he has this ex i really dont like too much. well joe acts a lot of the time like he likes me, he teases me(sorta mean, sorta nice), hes always messin with me, and the other night he called me. he made fun of me while we were on the phone, and he kept asking what i was doing. hes one of my kinda good friends and he texts me almost all the time. well i recently(as in about 5 minutes ago)found out from one of my other best friends that she told his ex (Sara) that i like him, and she and sara called him to try to get him to date me, my friend has been getting both of his exes to ...

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i need to know if we should have sex or just wait


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 4:22 pm

i love my boyfrined and we have been together for awhile but he is moving soon and i wont be able to see him after he moves so we talked about it and he agreed that we couldnt be together after he moved. we are both virgins and he told me he wanted me to be the one he lost it to. like im ok with it but i dont know if it would just make the break up harder or if it would be the same i just dont want to do something i might regret because i got to attached and cant let him go.....HELP


f/16

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Love or not??


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 12:10 pm

Okay well me and my Boyfriend broke up cuz he was going to be in Brooklyn for the whole summer, H had asked me out and said that everything would be okay, then he goes and says that its not worth it and that i was right we will never get to see eachtother, he didnt want to hurt me and that we would get back together when he comes back and that every thing would be okay.I miss him alot.i really want him back now.and then he calles me back saying that he might go to school in Brooklyn!! I dont like this at all, Im just really confused,I think i love him, he is on my mind all the time,Im not sure if its love or not, do you think it is? I hope not cuz if I do love him and he does not coem back then im going to be hurt, Bad, I dont want that to ...

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Chemistry


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 11:54 am

Hey guys, my question is, okay so I always tend to fall for the wrong guy, like the guy who isn't right for me. I went out with two different guys, both are nice, but theres just no chemistry, for me anyways. I liked this guy, who has been around with every single girl, I mean seriously, so it just kills me that I can waste four months liking a jackass like that, but not like other guys who are right for me. Ugh, I'm only 17 so I know I have time ahead of me, I'm just embarassed b/c my friends, are able to get any guys they want, with me I lack experience, to be completely honest. Its like I'm afraid to fall in love. I'm just really afraid of being alone forever :(

So what I'm asking is, why am I so afraid to fall in love, an...

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So i dont know what i want..


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 5:07 am

Okay so ive been dating this guy on and off for the past year and 4 months. We have had some pretty bad issues that lead to our break ups but we've worked through them all i guess. I've always felt great wen i was with him and like everything was perfect, excluding when we were fighting.. Except out last break up we spent 5 months apart and we both dated 2 other people before we got back together. Now that we're back together (Mind u this is the 6th time we have got back together) i thought everything would be great again, cuz well i love this kid and this is what ive wanted the whole time we were apart.. Butt i guess i was wrong.. Wen we got back together he just seemed to be more controlling and really distant.. it even feels weird to tal...

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My brother doesnt wanna let me go out with my boyfriend!


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 2:30 am

Ok so,heres the problem at first my brother likes my boyfriend the problem is..?!in School..all my classmates were tellin' rumors about my boyfriend that were together...cuz like we were keepin it on the down low...They found it out!and all our teachers like knew about it,...and my brother told me whatever you guys are doin you gotta stop it now!so he said if i ever go out, I should have a shaperown who he can trust.....And I dont know what to do...?

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this guy...


Posted Saturday July 26 2008, 12:17 am

anyway, i found out the guy i like likes me too (i heard from someone else who is friends with him) i told her that i like him but sometimes he is really nice and flirts with me and sometimes he acts like he dosen't like me at all, she ended up talking to him about it and she told me that he said he likes me but hes not sure if it would work out and all because of our age difference (5 years) and because we're in different stages in our lives (hes graduating college, i'm starting) and he dosen't want to start something if it won't work out. is there still a chance that he will still ask me out or what? i'm really confused...

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boyfriend is straight edge...i'm not.


Posted Friday July 25 2008, 6:26 pm

My boyfriend and I have only been going out for a week or two. We're pretty good friends, though. He's straight edge. I, however, am not; I drink casually and smoke from time to time. He doesn't know this. I'm pretty sure he'd be mad at me if he ever knew I had tried it. I really enjoy his company and talking to him, so I don't want to break up over something like this, but I don't want to start off our relationships with secrets. What should I do?

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Posted Friday July 25 2008, 6:25 pm

I'm fourteen and just finished 9th grade. I go to a religious school one night a week that includes kids from grades 8-12. As a member of the student council, I met a certain 12th-grade boy (well, college now, barely) and we became friends. He, however, seems to want to be more than that. He often seems like he's trying to flirt with me and he keeps asking if I want to "hang out." The only sort of hanging out he ever seems to come up with is moviegoing, which sounds way to close to a date for my comfort. I'm quite willing to be friends with him but I absolutely don't want to date him. How do I send him the message that I don't want to go out with him when he hasn't actually asked me out, exactly? I'm quite sure that he likes me, s...

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Just want an answer


Posted Friday July 25 2008, 6:22 pm

ok if you are doing anal and the boy cums in your bum can you get pregnant ?

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