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Love life........=(
How do i find a bf?? I'm going to be freshman this yr. and i want a bf really bad!
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"My friend Jack put it best:
"First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded."
So just because you haven't had a boyfriend yet doesn't mean you're missing out. You're what, 13 or 14? Big deal! I'm 16 and I've only had one actual boyfriend. And with how it ended, I haven't dated since freshman year.
Just wait until you find a guy who genuinely likes you for who you are. Don't rush into anything, you'll only end up regretting it later."
-Laura. (16-f)
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ok well you're going to be a freshman so let me tell you that there will be SO MANY GUYS that you won't be able to keep up lol. not kidding! all the classes have different guys and believe me you'll find a couple you like that will like you back.
but lemme tell you this, when i entered freshman year, 2 years ago, they were so immature. and being in a relationship with most of them is ridiculous. i know you want a boyfriend really badly, but lots of girls i know are starting to go single and they love it. they do whatever they want, whenever they want, and they don't have to worry about heartbreak from the guy they'd be dating.
just make sure you don't be too eager to get a boyfriend because that'll give off the impression that you're easy and that's never good because with all the gossip you'll quickly be called a slut. and everytime i dated a guy, they came unexpected, right when i was about to give up. not when i searched for them. be patient and good luck =]]
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First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because one of my ex-girlfriends was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded.
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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the more you look the harder it will be to find. My advice is stop worrying about a boyfriend and figure out why it is so important to have one. You should be excited to be able to start high school single and date different people before you tie yourself to one boy for a relationship. When you try to force a relationship you usually end up settling for someone who isn't really what you want and that can lead to more drama and as a freshman/teenager you will have enough of that. Be patient. When the time is right for you to have a BF you won't have to look so hard. Most guys will tell you that a female that is looking for a relationship are usually pushy and demanding and not what they want to deal with.
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