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my guy problems
ok so i met this guy his name is travis hes 22 and me and him have been friends for a few weeks
well we know we like each other and stuff but theres the problem of him living in a different county from me and i know my parents won't let me date him because hes 22 and im just 16 but my problem is my foster sister jaymie found out i was talking to him and she just blew up about it and started bitching me and him out calling him on his cellphone and stuff which wasn't to good so me and him taled online and stuff and we decided we shouldn't talk because i didn't think it was right what they did . the problem is i really miss him hes the one person i could talk to about anything . the worse thing about this is my real sister casey was threatening to tell our parents if i didn't tell her everything he said about he because she really liked him once and wanted to date him but he didn't like her. i just really miss him and now jaymie aka my foster sister sometimes checks up on me to see if ive talked to him since that happened which i happened and i really miss him .me and him were going to hang out and see how we felt about each other and then see if we wanted to date . i want to know what i should do because i seriously miss him . also if u think i shold talk to him and lie about it i can't lie i think its just wrong and i can't do it so please help . :( thanks in advance .ok i know ive already asked this question befor but i still need more help oh and to update this question i have recently been talking to travis a little bit and i have actually been resenting her for telling my sis jaymie about it . i got the feeling after she done that she just done it because he didn't want to go out with her when she liked him and shes jelous that he likes me and i like him . ive also noticed that this isn't that first guy ive liked that she ruined my relationship with.also i read my sister message archive on yahoo recently and she is against me having any relationship with a guy . any advice please help because at this rate im never going to be with a guy i like and im starting to hate my own sister for her selfish actions . thanks in advance . oh and ive met travis in r/l befor i didn't meet him on the internet or anything thats just were weve talked the most for all those ppl who think im talking to an internet perve.
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Drop it young one, it's most likely that he know;s that he is not in his Country, he is in the United States where a baby girl like you can be to him no more then prison time. You should think about what you can cause, No good.
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Well, I don't think it's right for your sister(s) to be rude to you in any way... But, unfortenatly, you two dating would be completely illegal. You're 16 and he is 22, if an adult found out, you could have him put in jail. I know that that's a fact because I went to school with a girl when I was 15/16 and she was dating a 20/21 year old, and her parents new that it was illegal so he was put in jail more then once. He wasn't a bad guy, but it's still not right. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just letting you know, you can get him in a lot of trouble. I'm not sure if your sisters are trying to look out for you because of the age difference or what? I'm not them, but if you've normally had a decent relationship, they may just be worried. And it could be jealousy from your one sister but, trust me, if a guy you meet really likes you, it'll happen. I really would suggest just not really talking to this guy anymore except for on a friend level. I understand you miss him, and I'm sure you're not going to like my answer at all. It just seems like there is too much stress going on for you. It'd be so much easier for you if you found someone closer to your age that your parents could know about, because it wouldn't matter if your sister knew. Unless your parents say you aren't allowed to date there would be no way for your sister to stop you from being with someone you can see/talk to more and that is closer to your age, and that wouldn't be thrown in jail for dating you... I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, that's not the way I'm intending it, and I'm sorry if this upsets you, I guess I'm just trying to give you an outsiders point of view. I understand age is nothing but a number and it works for some people but, it's normally better to wait when your actually legal yourself. If it were my sister I'd definitely ask her what her problem is and why they are doing what they are doing to find out if their intentions are to be mean, or to protect me.... I hope I could at least help a little and if not I'm sure someone else on here will have a better opinion for you. Good luck! Take care. =)
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