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I like my best frann!
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 12:53 am
My best friend is a guy, and he is like the best, I really really like him, but I'm not sure if he feels the same way about me =/
All my friends say its really obvious that we like each other but I've had someone ask him out for me but he said no. It didn't ruin our friendship at all, we always hang out, and everyone says we might as well go out cuz we already act like we are. So I guess what I'm trying to say is, how can I tell if he likes me? Or if he does why did he say no?
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what do i do?
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 9:15 pm
16/f
i love my bf and everything but we were on the verge of breaking up today.it started off with him asking me if i thought about him. then he said thathe didnt think that i wasnt an important part of my life. he is! i asked him if he wanted to break up and he said no. he got mad cause i didnt answer my phone at 5 and he was looking forward all day to this. then he said that he was thinking and saying that he didnt like me. after thinking he was like im stupid i love you. he said he was having a really bad day.then i got really hurt by that. we were both crying on the phone. then he said he loved me i wanted to be with me.2 min later i called him back saying i wanted to be with him he said the same. i dont know what do i do ? i love him but do i just take his word for it?
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Now He's Acting Like I Don't Exist
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 8:00 pm
Okay, so I feel really, really stupid. This one guy (let's call him M) told me to call him after I got home from my physical. So, I was able to talk to him first last Saturday, and he told me to call a new number. So today, I decided that I'd try that number instead, because I really wanted to talk to him.
I would call him several other times on the number that he gave me to call, but he would never picked up that one.
He would've asked me for my number, but there was no way for him to obtain paper to help me out.
I know it was him too, because I recognized the phone voice.
Well, he was acting like he didn't even know that I existed when I called him today. My guy friend who was a...
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complicated love
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 6:19 pm
ok well im a jr this year and me and my ex broke up right befor summer started i thought i was gonna have the worst summer ever but it turned out great. ill tell you from the begging freshmen year i liked this guy "billy" we flirted and had our thing but went our separte ways that summer and i ended up getting with my recent ex well all sophmore year me and billy didnt talk about it we both thought the other had gotten over it so we were just friends. well afer me and my ex broke up me and billy started talking alot more and i found out that he still liked me and i knew i still liked him to my feelings for him never went away and well this summer i fell in love with him and we both have feelings for eachother and he makes me so h...
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my guy friend i like him more then a friend
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 5:55 pm
With my guy friend jaymes i really like him like alot , i've liked him the whole school year , and i'm not sure he likes me now but i know he used to . i'm scard to ask him out and he says not and it will then feel akward cause i see him alot helives two house away from mine but i LIKE hime soo much
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first date!!!
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 2:03 pm
15/f
a guy asked me out and we are making plans to hang out this weekend. were going to watch a movie together at a mall. this is the first time im ever going on a date with a guy and i really need some pointers and tips on what to say, do, act etc. please help! im really nervous!!
and i also asked my bff to come with me (shes bringing her boyfriend) because my parents wont let me go out unless i bring a friend with.
HELP IM FREAKING OUT HERE!!
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Gay ex-boyfriend
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 1:45 pm
I recently found out that my ex-boyfriend is gay. I'm not saying this is a bad thing at all. I could care less what sexual preference people have. I have three lesbian friends and it doesn't bother me. It's just that when I met my ex, he wasn't gay. When I met my lesbian friends, they'd already come out and everything. It's just such a shock to me. It just feels weird. He only just realized that he was gay a few months ago, and he came out last week. (We broke up in March, and he realized this apparently in the beginning of May.)
I'm not prejudiced at all against gay people, it's just a weird feeling that someone I was dating turned out to be gay. There's nothing wrong with that as a person, just the idea is sort of uncomfortable you...
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drunk sex with roommate.
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 11:39 am
Female 21.
I moved in oct to fl. I made friends fast and had been flirting with this guy for months. Finally I had to move and moved into a house with my new friends two brothers and ones girlfriend and two other guys. The brother(21) without a GF is the guy i had been flirting with for months. We finally hooked up (no drinking involved) He said he didnt want to date anyone but wanted to try new things since he never had a gf he was pretty innocent with alot of things and that was fun to me. I was ok with this. Then every now and then we would have sex(no drinking), months later he started having this other girl come over and hooked up with her. Since it was bothering me i new i was getting attached. So we disscussed this and i state...
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The Guy I REALLY Liked Moved
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 5:07 am
Ok. Well there was this guy at my school. I liked A LOT. I mean more than anyone I've ever liked and we're (my friends and me) almost positive he liked me. But the last day of school we found out he's movin back to his country! I cried for weeks. I'm still really bummed that whenever i hear his name. I have to choke back tears! Can someone please tell me what to do?!?
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girls help
Posted Monday August 4 2008, 3:31 am
Ok, I want 2 know what's the signs of herpies, and HIV
Please tell me
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like?
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 11:17 pm
15/f
Okay, well i met this guy that i didn't know at a party and he told my friend he thought i was cute. So we exchanged numbers through our friends and we texted eachother as friends for about 2 weeks. Then eventually started "talking." We talked for about a week and then he asked me if we could just be friends because he has to get a job and he said he had a lot going on right now. Why would he want to start "talking" to me for just a week and then go back to being friends? Also, do you think he still likes me even though he just wants to be friends right now? I don't really know his situation but he said that he has to get a job and it sounded like he had some stuff going on. I don't really know what this mean...
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Love's neverending story
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 11:01 pm
Hello. I am a teenage chick whos 17 years old from the USA. So I've liked this guy for um about 3 years now and I know that he doesn't like me back and I don't think he ever will. He keeps calling me, IMing me and talking to me so its like really hard to get over him. And the worst part about it is that whenever I feel down about that, he always wants to come and talk to me and he wants to know if I can talk to him about it. Obviously I can't!!!! So its like confusiing becaus eit seems like I'll never get over him and my crush is going into a neverending loop! Do I really love him or is this just a 3 year phase? I like him because hes the only guy who actually listens to me, the only guy who actually talks to me, and hes a really awesome pe...
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far away
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 10:24 pm
recently i went down to visit my dad a few states away from me, i was there for about 2 weeks. & in those two weeks i met some amazing people. i liked one of the boys at first, then realized he was just a friend to me & realized i really liked his friend. well me and that boy were just laying in bed together and he had his arm over my back and he just kept looking at me and smiling. and then i told him i liked him. i could tell he liked me but wouldnt tell me because he is like basically taken. anyways. one night we were going to sneak out and meet up with eachother, really just to talk because i was leaving in 2 days. well that never happened. but the next day we were laying in bed again and he put his arm around and told me that ...
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does he hate me?
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 8:04 pm
okay, so for most of the summer me & this kid have been hanging out a lot w. mutual friends and every time he alwayss flirts with me hardcore, cuddles with me, puts his arm around me and acts like he likes me. he's a flirty person but still..it felt like more because of how much chemistry we had. even our friends say so and think we look soo cute toghether..then last night we hung out and it was totally different. he was nice to everyone BUT me &acted like he hated me! he even flirted with my friend right in fronttt of me..& avoided me like i was a disease or something! :[ i don't understand how it could go from one extreme to the next. except that a lot of people found out i like him..and i think maybe someone told him..now i h...
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My Babe
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 5:03 pm
I feel as if I am selfish. My Babe was suppose to sleep over my house on Thursday. I called her to make sure it was still on and she was on her way to corning. That's were her cousins live. i was like, why are you going to corning when we made a plan. I haven't seen her in two weeks, cause i was on vacation. So I really miss her alot. I was kind of acting like a jerk because i was so upset with her. I regret it and zi told her I was sorry., But I am just wondering two questions.
#1 was i being selfish?
#2 what if happens again, what should i do?
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He's going away to college and I'm devastated.... ='[
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 4:26 pm
Well, Levi and I have been together 2 years. We're both 18. He's going away to College on the other side of the state. I'm really torn up about it because I'm not a strong person. We love eachother and want to make it work but whenever I've suggested something like, I move over there with him, and we rent an apartment or something like that, he says I'll be a distraction. He says I mean a lot to him, and I think I do, it's just that I'm so hurt and depressed over things like this. And I ask him to reassure me that everything will be okay. And he says he's not good at that kind of thing [[ which is true ]] he's an aquarius and isn't very vocal with his feelings. Whereas I'm a cancer and the polar opposite. We've made promises like no drinkin...
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oops?
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 3:02 pm
Okay, so there's a guy I met this summer (we work together) and I had a really big crush on him. Then he told me that he liked me. I'm not too interested in being in a relationship right now, though. he was okay with that, but he keeps acting all boyfriend-ish. It would be okay, except that I don't really like him anymore. The more we talked, the more I realized he really wasn't my type. I feel terrible because he thinks I still like him and is all hopeful that I'll change my mind about dating sometime in the future. I really, really don't want to hurt him. I know the most reasonable answer is to come right out and tell him I don't like him anymore, but thats such an awful thing to say! I thought it'd be okay after I told him I just ...
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age difference.
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 2:50 pm
so im 17/f, going on 18 next month. i've been talking to this guy, 21/m, for a few days. he seems really nice & people have told me that he is. he's interested in me and wants to take me to a dinner and a movie this weekend. i just want to know if there's anything different about dating an older guy. most guys i've dated have been less than a year older than me. i know every girl says this, but i am mature for my age in the way that i act. im not some stupid little teenager. obviously i know that if he tries to use me for sexual stuff, to drop him & get out. but just any experiences about dating an older guy you could tell me would be great. do they act different than guys that are, say, 18? how are they in relationships? anything like that.
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good kisser
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 1:59 pm
how can u tell if ur a good kisser or not...i havent had my first kiss and i wanna make sure....i dont wanna go up to him and ask if im a good kisser.....any other ways?
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guilty
Posted Sunday August 3 2008, 1:51 am
i was dating this guy, let's name him buttercup. we WERE supposed to go out, but then he was pretty busy with summer school and all of that stuff. and then, i didn't really like him anymore, so i told him so i wouldn't lead him on or anything. and i told him the reason why i started not liking him anymore, and ever since.. i haven't talked to him. it's almost been two months now. on the same day i told him, we decided to stay away from each other for a month or two because we noticed that we were just rushing into our feelings and we didn't take our time getting to know each other and all of that. so we stopped talking for a while, and my best friend was there for me. and let's just call him, blossom. and then i started liking blossom... an...
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