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first date!!!
15/f
a guy asked me out and we are making plans to hang out this weekend. were going to watch a movie together at a mall. this is the first time im ever going on a date with a guy and i really need some pointers and tips on what to say, do, act etc. please help! im really nervous!!
and i also asked my bff to come with me (shes bringing her boyfriend) because my parents wont let me go out unless i bring a friend with.
HELP IM FREAKING OUT HERE!!
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First, deep breath! Relax, it's all going to be fine! Going to the movies for the first date is one of the most relaxing things you can do. And if you're nervous, it's really one of the best things you can do, too. It gives you a chance to interact/joke, but you're not forced to really hold a deep conversation or anything like that.
Just first, ask if he's the type to talk or anything like that during a movie. You wouldn't want to go on while he's trying to pay attention, or completely stay quiet when he'd rather be talking to you. Just ask him over messanger or before the movie or something. Also, don't be scared to cuddle or hold his hand or something! Be close: Guys notice the little things even if you don't think they do.
If you're eating or something afterwards, make sure you just think about having a good time. Be confident in the things you're doing, and be happy. If you make it like you're enjoying yourself, other people will to. Ask your friend beforehand to make sure she'll help start conversations instead of separating her and her boyfriend from you guys. If you need help, kinda hint at it to her.
Just remember to be yourself. Don't dress differently or act differently because this is a 'date' and not a 'hang out'. This guy asked you on a date because he enjoys being around you, not some nervous girl whose trying to impress him, haha. Basically, act the way you've been acting around him thus far. Just get a little.. closer. (:
It'll all be okay, and you'll have tons of fun! Afterwards you'll just think "Wow, what was I so nervous about?" It's like going into high school: Nervous until you try it out. :D
XOXO
KAT.
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Guys like girls who don't go out of their way to impress them. So if you just be yourself and relax, the guy will definitely notice and he'll likely be more attracted to you since you're being yourself.
Here's how to start conversations if that is what you're worried about:
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Here's some flirting tips if that's something else you're worried about:
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And here's some other things guys like in a girl:
Guys like girls who are confident in themselves.
Guys like girls who are individuals without being too weird.
Guys like girls who are smart.
Guys like girls who are well-rounded.
Guys like girls who are willing to carry on a conversation.
Basically it differs for every guy, but generally, that's what guys think.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
--Jack
(16/m)
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The best thing you can do, is be yourself. Don't try to act a certain way, or talk a certain way JUST to get this guy to like you. You want him to like you for YOU, not somebody you're pretending to be.
Other than that, don't be nervous! It's really not a huge deal, and the fact that your best friend is coming with makes it even more of a comfortable situation. And always remember, this boy is probably JUST as nervous as you are =]
-Laura. (16-f)
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just be yourself, relax, and have fun!
don't wear a miniskirt, guys jump to conclusions.
thats pretty much all i can think of.
oh and try thinking of stuff to think about now and write it down on a peice of paper. but don't take the paper with you. just try to remember stuff from it. it will help, you don't want any awkward silent moments :)
hope i helped & don't hesitate to ask if you need anymore help :)
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