recently i went down to visit my dad a few states away from me, i was there for about 2 weeks. & in those two weeks i met some amazing people. i liked one of the boys at first, then realized he was just a friend to me & realized i really liked his friend. well me and that boy were just laying in bed together and he had his arm over my back and he just kept looking at me and smiling. and then i told him i liked him. i could tell he liked me but wouldnt tell me because he is like basically taken. anyways. one night we were going to sneak out and meet up with eachother, really just to talk because i was leaving in 2 days. well that never happened. but the next day we were laying in bed again and he put his arm around and told me that im beautiful and to not let anyone tell me different and smiled. i had to leave the enxt day. so the day i got home, i was on the computer talking to him and he goes if you tell anyone i will never talk to you again, but i like you. and idk i was so happy! like i knew he did, but i wanted him to say it. we talked until like 5 in the morning and he was so sweet. he is the most amazing guy i have ever met. i just hate thinking about how we live so far away from eachother because i really like him. i wont be able to see him til either november, december, or february. i just dont know what to do. any advice since im not really asking a question.
I know it's hard to have someone you really like so far away, not being able to see them or be close to them.
But I'd like to bring up something different. You mentioned he was taken already. And I hate to be a downer, but it doesn't seem like he's going to be breaking up with this other person any time soon, judging by his comment.
Keep talking to him because it seems like you guys really get along and like each other. And remember that it might not work out the way you want it to but there's many more possibilities out there. :) [ TheSunshineShow's advice column | Ask TheSunshineShow A Question ]
cheifbritneeilu answered Monday August 4 2008, 5:44 am: No matter what it will be difficult. You live a few states away, so no matter what you will NEVER know what is going on with him. Even if you have other friends telling you "Heyy, you know him and Sherri and have been getting friendly lately" you won't know if their really only friends, or more. It will be hard. If you go down in November, maybe then you could advance into a relationship for the amount of time your there, but when you leave you'll be back to being clueless. My suggestion is to just get to know eachother better.
Knowing him for 2 weeks maybe have allowed you to get the basic idea of who he is, and such, but you don't know what he is about. Where he came from. You may know some, but for now, you don't know it all. And if you are to advance into that kind of relationship it will be very, very difficult. [ cheifbritneeilu's advice column | Ask cheifbritneeilu A Question ]
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