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Now He's Acting Like I Don't Exist
Okay, so I feel really, really stupid. This one guy (let's call him M) told me to call him after I got home from my physical. So, I was able to talk to him first last Saturday, and he told me to call a new number. So today, I decided that I'd try that number instead, because I really wanted to talk to him.
I would call him several other times on the number that he gave me to call, but he would never picked up that one.
He would've asked me for my number, but there was no way for him to obtain paper to help me out.
I know it was him too, because I recognized the phone voice.
Well, he was acting like he didn't even know that I existed when I called him today. My guy friend who was actually there to see him give me his number, said that he thought that M liked me too. And M went up to me, and started hitting on me, not the other way around.
I find this very weird, and I don't even know if I should bother calling him again. This was going to be a friends with benefits type of situation, since he's a marine and will be leaving for basic training soon.
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Hm.. Weird. Did 'M' know about this friends with benefits situation, or was that what you were planning? If he knew, that's probably one of the reasons he's not really acting interested. Since he knows you've agreed to friends with benefits, he dosen't feel like he really needs to impress you or anything. Zero commitment, basically. This would seem even more likely if the time you guys talked on Saturday was the day you established friends with benefits--It would explain why he was so nice, etc.
He could be a really nice guy, and you guys could only be doing friends with benefits because of his training, but remember: You've left him with the idea that it's not much of a commitment. He's probably not going to expect much of an attachment, so be prepared for that.
If he dosen't really know about the frieds with benefits situation yet, or you think that wouldn't stop him from being interested otherwise, there could always be something going on with him. Maybe something was wrong that day, or he was busy?
The fact that he seemed interested earlier and isn't now leads me to those two conclusions, but I could be wrong. If you get the chance, talk to him! That's the only way you can really be sure of anything. It's never good to just make assumptions and go on them, so get the answers from HIM. Then make your judgements.
Good luck, and I hope everything works out for you.
XOXO
KAT.
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well if he did that just ignore him yur probly to good for him any ways if he's acting like suh a jerk he is so not worth it trust i've ahd some experiences like that!!
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