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party...what to do around him
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 11:42 pm
i really like this guy and i think he might like me back, hes been dropping a few hints and stuff but like he didnt flat out say that he liked me... (yet?) we've only hung out like 3 or so times. im seeing him again this weekend at a party and theres gonna be alcohol there. hes not really a big drinker but he does a little bit. this is gonna sound really stupid but my question is, should i act a little tipsy around him? because i kind of want to see if he'll take care of me and stuff. please don't tell me to act myself and stuff its not like im gonna get flat out drunk, im not like that. i just wanna see if he really does have feelings for me and stays with me...which he has before at a non-alcoholic beverage party.
17/f
thank youu!
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he is soo confusing me!!!!
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 11:35 pm
Oka were can i start well first off im 15 and i like this boy. He knows i like him and well he flirts alot with me. And like i dont wanna give my hopes up thinking he likes me when he might not like me but then again i dont know because sometimes he seems like he do and sometimes and dont. Like one time my friend told me he always ask about me like asking if i still like him and stuff like that. And if he dont likes me then why is he flirting with me and always just messing aorund with me dont he know all it doese is just makes me like him more. Its just everything dont seems right to me at all. How can i tell if he like me? Oh and i never actually ask him if he likes me because he be talking to other girls and i always just be thinking he ...
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shy guy.
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 5:56 pm
I go to this camp & I'm in close contact with this one guy who I have a little crush on. From his body language I can tell that he's kind of into me but he's never talked to me. I smile at him but he's too shy to make conversation. Camp ends soon, how can I get this guy out of his shell?!
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Secret Lovers?
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 3:03 pm
I am 17 and a senior in high school. i started this job a while back and there is this guy i like there but he is 21. he's really sweet and everyone has good things to say about him. I was always shy to talk to him but then i got up the courage to talk to him and it turned out he thought i was cute. so we started talking and i seen him at some parties then i spent the night at his house and he said he felt like a weirdo because of my age but we made out anyway, thats it. then i seen him some more and then we ended up having sex and i felt stupid because my sister said to me, dont you think its wierd how you are too young to date but not too young to have sex with and now that i think about it, IT IS. ive had this problem before but this guy...
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MAJOORRR love problems. [reallllly long!]
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 2:37 pm
I have so much going on, and this is making everything worse. About a year and a half ago, i started going out with this guy Alex. I liked him ALOT, he was my first kiss! So obviously, you keep thinking about that moment that you first kissed someone, also he was my first true boyfriend. I was about fourteen, or about thirteen. at that time. I am almost sixteen now. I constantly think about Alex. We broke up because at my young age, i didn't know much about relationships then. Making it the fact that he was my first true boyfriend. We would talk on the phone EVERY night for HOURS. When i say hours, i mean HOURS. about 4 or 5 hours. then i would have to wake up for school about 3 hours after we hung up. i didn't care, i loved him. I was tex...
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Boy trouble
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 11:27 am
14/F I have this best friend that I absolutely love. He is so cool and makes me feel good.He is not popular neither am I. That is why people make fun of him. He also has a deaf ear. I don't know wheather to listen to everyone in my school or date the uy that makes me feel absolutley awesome. Like I am in heaven. Please Help
~~~Unicyclegurl~~~
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Met this guy online that I really like
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 10:45 am
So I met this guy online that I really like and I've known him for about a year. We just started talking on the phone a couple days ago at around midnight for like 2 hours and just yesterday we IMed each other for like the entire day and talked about nothing. :P
Problem is, we live about 600 miles away from each other so we can't see each other.
I'm 15 and he's 15- what do you suggest? Does he feel the same way about me?
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Dumping/leaving nicley
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 6:12 am
Ok so I like this guy(Alex) and my best guy friend asked me out(Devlin).
Now I couldn't say no to my bestie! That would be harsh! But I didn't know that Alex the guy I've liked for 11months likes me! He asked me out and I had to say no, it realy sucks cause I don't want to ruin mine and Devlin's friendship but I dont want to go out with him...I want to be with Alex(Who/I only gets top see me/him between 1am and 5:30am whitch sucks for sleeping!).
I like Devlin but more as an older brother..and I love Alex. How do I let Dev down without hurting much if at all??
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how to meet and get to know guys (outside of school)?
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 6:06 am
15/f/uk
I keep seeing films or reading books (and I know this might be unrealistic) where the girl meets this guy somewhere, he's really amazing, and they just hang out and flirt and you know they're going to end up together. Even if they don't love each other, they do really like each other.
I've just come out of this 'relationship' with this guy that has been going on for ages. Thing is, we actually split up in december, but it's been carrying on till now. He still really likes me and I can't say I don't have ANY feelings for him, but I'm pretty sure I'm ready to move on now.
And I really want that kind of relationship I described at first (to give some examples, Robbie and Georgia in Angus, Th...
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I'm involved with a married man, could the outcome be anything but bad?
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 4:14 am
I am a 25 year old woman who for the past year has been involved with a married man. He is 20 years older then me and has 2 kids...both of them in their teenage years. He has been married to his wife for 20 years. Our affair started off drunken sex and now its I love you, I wish I could be with you. I do have very strong feelings for him and I believe he has the same for me. He says his wife is pulling away from him and he feels like she wants someone different, as does he. He says that once his youngest kid goes off to collage he really thinks things between him and his wife will end and that the only reason he believes they are still together is the kids. I don't know what to think.. Can there ever be a future between us? Is he using me f...
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tough question
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 3:45 am
ok so this is a pretty long question with a few parts, please answer all.
in the beginning of july, i saw an old friend from when i was younger. i'd seen him a few times since but he'd grown a lot this past time. he's become really cute and my mom agrees, she really liked the idea of us possibly getting together. we started talking but my past with guys made it difficult to fully trust him and i got kind of bitchy to him, which i take full responsibility for. now we aren't talking and its been a week since he's talked to me and he just ignores me now, even though i've apologized. this saturday is his graduation party so i'm going to have to see him. how should i react to seeing him when i know he's not as thrilled as i am? ho...
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routine
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 2:38 am
I met my boyfriend the summer of last year. That summer was one of the best summers of my life. At the time, neither of us had anything going, we were both off from school and both unemployed… but we had each other. He was relaxed then, always made me laugh, and he was so fun to be around… By the time summer was over he had a school schedule, but he made his efforts to see me, and with it only being twice a week, that was good enough for me, cause we still had our long conversations over the phone… But by the time January came along, we started having some fights, he never had time, but I got over those fights, I knew I loved him, so I supported him in everything he did, and he did the same for me… But this summer, it’s like he...
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my boyfriend agian.
Posted Wednesday August 6 2008, 2:03 am
i know i posted something like this ealier
and everyones advice was good.
but all this stuff with my boyfriend is making me so sad. and its driving me crazy.
i dont have like any girls that are friends cause me and girls just dont get along
and every guy that i talk to tell me to just break up with him and of course a guy would tell me that cause they wanna get with me
but i know their serious casue they see how sad i am.
but i just cant break up with him. im too inlove with him and ill be ever sadder
but my boyfriend and me live in different states
so the only thing our relationship really relies on is talking and trust and communicating and all that. but we dont even do that....
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turn onssss.
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 11:54 pm
what are some things that turn a guy on?
like.. while you're making out and stuff, what are different things that you can do? cause after a while, it just seems like the same old stuffff.
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a guy that i really like is dating someone
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 10:57 pm
I'm a girl, 14 years old, and theres this one guy who i dated a while back, but i broke up with him. Lately, we've been talking a lot and a started to really really like him again. He was so sweet to me and he seemed like he liked me a lot, too. One night, i told him how i felt and he told me that he liked me too, but the thing is, the next day he started dating another girl, and he told her that he loved her---over myspace. To me, thats stupid, especially on the first day dating and stuff. But anyway, i haven't talked to him since then, and i can't get him off of my mind and its driving me NUTS. Everything i do, reminds me of him, and i see his face all the time everywhere i go. I know that sounds stupid, but its true. Idk what i should do...
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my boyfriend..
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 8:35 pm
me and my boyfriend live in different states
and we talk somewhat more then we did before becasue we got into a huge fight about it and i guess he realized i was right
but girls will add him on myspace and he tells them their cute.
and it makes me mad cause hes suppose to be with me. and i dont go do that stuff
and ive told him before about this and hes like im not doing anything shes just my bestfriend
well this girl is like a new friend and they dont know eachother at all
and it makes me so mad cause he doesnt understand my feelings
and i commented him and he told me to text him so i did
and he said one thing to me and i texted him back twice
and then i told him that i hate wh...
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A guy that liked me LOADS 3 months ago has gone off me n I REALLY like him
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 8:30 pm
Me and my friend met these two guys 3 months ago. One of them really liked me. He asked me out 3 times after a few weeks. I said no because we hardly knew each other BUT the real reason was because my friend liked his friend and he wasnt asking her out and I felt mean for saying yes because things were going well for me and not for her.
He would ask me to come out and meet him and I wouldn't. Id only meet him when I took my friend and he was bringing his friend along for her. Id also never had anyone like me like that before and I was nervous about being alone with him, incase we ran out of things to talk about or something.
We met up a few times (the four of us) and would stay at one of the guys brothers fla...
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overheard
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 7:24 pm
15/f
Okay, i went to a school meeting today and i was sitting by my friend elaine and she was sitting by this girl i don't know. Well elaine asked me if i was still "talking" to the guy i was talking to. I was like "no, he said we should just be friends because he has a lot going on right now and he has to get a job." I didn't say it in the nicest way either. I mean i didn't say it mean but i wasn't exactly cheery. Well after the meeting i was talking to my firend elaine again and she was like, "that girl that was sitting next to me was he sister." I din't know that that was his sister and i still really like the guy and i don't want her to tell him, i was saying that and being snotty about us just being...
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I don't know how to confront my ex-boyfriend
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 2:22 am
There's this boy that I use to go out with maybe about like a year ago and to make a long story short, we don't talk to each other anymore. Well, he's leaving in about a week to go to college, and I've sorta been talking to him like how's your summer been kinda crap. And I've acknowledged the fact that we are such crappy friends cause we can't talk to each other and stuff and he agrees with me. Anyways, I don't know if this is just me thinking about him again or whatever, but I really, really want to have sex with him. (I don't want him to be my boyfriend again I just want to do it with him.) He was just so good at kissing and after we stopped going out, we still did stuff together until I ended it because I didn't want to do things anymore...
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We only talk online!
Posted Tuesday August 5 2008, 1:16 am
I really like this boy at school but I only ever talk to him on myspace.
Ive talked to him a little bit in person but only a few times a couple of months ago.
Im not a confident person at all, what can I do?
I know he likes me or he is at least trying to get to know me, he is always the one who starts the conversation. He usually only asks me questions about school and we talk aboutour teachers and stuff. We've never really talked about anything else. I find it a bit awkward coz he is in my class but we dnt really talk, only online. I am not confident and i dont know what to do.
Can anyone help?
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