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I don't know how to confront my ex-boyfriend
There's this boy that I use to go out with maybe about like a year ago and to make a long story short, we don't talk to each other anymore. Well, he's leaving in about a week to go to college, and I've sorta been talking to him like how's your summer been kinda crap. And I've acknowledged the fact that we are such crappy friends cause we can't talk to each other and stuff and he agrees with me. Anyways, I don't know if this is just me thinking about him again or whatever, but I really, really want to have sex with him. (I don't want him to be my boyfriend again I just want to do it with him.) He was just so good at kissing and after we stopped going out, we still did stuff together until I ended it because I didn't want to do things anymore without having a boyfriend. (Hypocrite, I know.) So what my question is is how do I confront him about this? It's really embarrassing and also really scary because what if he says no he doesn't want to? I'll feel like a total idiot. Please help and thank you!
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that's a very bad idea.
Especially with exes, sex can get very complicated.
So don't do it. If you're that desperate, there are alternative ways in doing that. Or you can wait a bit.
cheers,
stargirl
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This is a bad idea, I hope you realize. If you want to do anything with your ex, be sure that all parties STRICTLY agree no feelings will be involved.
Ask him out for lunch and just casually bring it up, that's probably the most straight forward way. Or, I suppose, you could IM or text him. Just say it, though. People hate it when you beat the bush to death.
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