|
overheard
15/f
Okay, i went to a school meeting today and i was sitting by my friend elaine and she was sitting by this girl i don't know. Well elaine asked me if i was still "talking" to the guy i was talking to. I was like "no, he said we should just be friends because he has a lot going on right now and he has to get a job." I didn't say it in the nicest way either. I mean i didn't say it mean but i wasn't exactly cheery. Well after the meeting i was talking to my firend elaine again and she was like, "that girl that was sitting next to me was he sister." I din't know that that was his sister and i still really like the guy and i don't want her to tell him, i was saying that and being snotty about us just being friends and not anything else. Now, i am really worried about it because i like him a lot. We only talked for a week and then he told me that and i was kinda sad. Please help!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Wait for him to bring it up. If he does, explain that you weren't trying to be rude, that you were just a little upset, and apologize. Same goes if his sister says something about it.
It's not guaranteed that his sister will tell him anything though. She might just understand what you were feeling.
All in all, you didn't commit a crime by what you said, so don't feel too bad about it. And the guy? He'll come along. :)
]
You can't really prevent his sister from telling him if she wants to. Yeah, it would be really immature of her to, but then again, she might just be looking out for her brother.
Maybe just, for a precaution, contact the guy and let him know that you said something that wasn't meant to be rude, but may have come off as rude, and that his sister heard it, and maybe apologize.
Really that's the only option I see as of right now.
--Jack
(16/m)
]
More Questions: |