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Boy trouble
14/F I have this best friend that I absolutely love. He is so cool and makes me feel good.He is not popular neither am I. That is why people make fun of him. He also has a deaf ear. I don't know wheather to listen to everyone in my school or date the uy that makes me feel absolutley awesome. Like I am in heaven. Please Help
~~~Unicyclegurl~~~
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go for it.if u like the guy then go ahead and ask him out but if you do go out with him and you guys break up, what will happen after that? think about the consequences of going out with a best friend. but really you shouldn't care what people say. do what you gotta do.
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Go for it! Don't worry about what people say, really. If you both aren't "popular" already, what's the difference? Besides, "popular" dosen't matter in the real world. Would you rather remember a great boyfriend you had in high school, or whether people liked you?
You could both really offer a lot to each other. It sounds like you both make each other really happy, and you both sound so much better than the petty things people are saying. People shouldn't be making fun of him in the first place, but you could help him feel so much better if you went with what you felt, and not what people were saying about him and dated him. (:
If he makes you feel so great, who really cares what people have to say? You'll have something they don't, anyway.
XOXO
KAT.
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No matter who you date in life, you will always come across someone who does not approve or teases you for dating the guy, whether it's through jealousy or just plain cruelty on their behalf.
Just remember to follow YOUR heart and go with whatever makes you happy. If this guy makes you feel as wonderful as you describe, what better match could there be for you?!
If people are making fun of him because of a "popularity" issue, don't let their remarks make your decision for you. You know what you want; go for it!
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If he makes you feel loved, and you have that incredible feeling that everyone experiences when their in love. Ask him Out. Dont worry what other people think because in the long run, you'll be with him, and those people will move on and you won't see them again..
I would ask him out and start dating..
So what if he has a deaf ear we all have our flaws.
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Don't listen to everyone else. Listen to your heart. I know that sounds corny but if he is a good guy for you and you like him a lot and he likes you, go for it. You shouldn't care what other people think. It's about your happiness. Hope this helps!
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If you listen to everyone else than you'll never know if you'll be completely happy with this guy. If you want to date him, date him. Don't let other people talk you out of what you want.
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Who the hell cares about what other people think? Date him
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