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Secret Lovers?
I am 17 and a senior in high school. i started this job a while back and there is this guy i like there but he is 21. he's really sweet and everyone has good things to say about him. I was always shy to talk to him but then i got up the courage to talk to him and it turned out he thought i was cute. so we started talking and i seen him at some parties then i spent the night at his house and he said he felt like a weirdo because of my age but we made out anyway, thats it. then i seen him some more and then we ended up having sex and i felt stupid because my sister said to me, dont you think its wierd how you are too young to date but not too young to have sex with and now that i think about it, IT IS. ive had this problem before but this guy actually tells me that he likes me and stuff so i dont know what to do. i told him we arent having sex again ebcause it makes me like him more than i already do and he was like well maybe thats a good idea cuz i feel the same way and im not sure if this is going to go anywhere. i dont know what to do, should i believe this guy and wait until in 18 (which isnt till another 7 or 8 months) or should i just forget it? i know its hard to decided seeing as you dont know him, just what would you do? please respond soon, i need quick advice, i might be going to the movies with him tonight!
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You do know thats illegal, he could go to jail because of you, not to make u guilty or anything but its wrong, hes way to old for you, i suggest wait, but thats just one person opinion
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Well four years to me isn't that big of an age difference. If you really like this guy, then go for it. The age of consent differs in each state so it isn't just you have to be eighteen in every state. But if he says he likes you, then unless you have some reason not to believe him, then I would believe him. Any guy at any age can lie andtake advantage of you. So what I'm saying is just because he's older doesn't mean he's lying to you and is going to use you. if you like him, then just go for it.
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Just friends. Thats the best idea. Stay just friends and DO NOT HAVE SEX AGAIN. You don't want to get hurt he might think your cute but your personality is what he should care about. Don't wait on him stay friends with him if you want but see other guys your age. It's safer and you'll have a better conience ( sorry isnt spelt right). So its ok to stay friends but really dont let him be the only guy in your life. hope i helped =) good luck
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