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uhh confused?


Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 1:23 am

hey im 14/f and this guy i likes 15/m and were a freshman at our school and homecomeing right around the corner for us. okay well to get to the story.
hes in my 5th hour. i set by his best friend (my best friend lkikes his best friend ha)okay so me and his friend talk all the time oh and his best friends name is andrea and the guy i lieks name is edmond. me and edmond talked for awhile on the computer and he asked for my number so i was pumped that he liked me or something so me adn him text all the time. and we went to a foot ball game together and it was very cold out side so i wore his jacket and then we started to hold hands and we were very close to each other. and we almost kissed!. okay so the week after that we always hangou...

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love?


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 11:40 pm

ok, my boyfriend of like 2 weeks told me today that he loved me.. i was kinda speechless and didn't end up saying anything because i was so taken back by it. its not that i don't love him, i just don't really know yet, its only been 2 weeks and this is my first relationship. anyway, what does that exactly say about him (saying that he loves me so early in the relationship) and what can i say next time he says that to be that won't hurt his feelings or anything like that? if anyone could help me out a bit, that would be great, thanks in advance for your advice :)

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competion


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 10:42 pm

I am a thirteen year old girl - btw. So at my school I have an huge crush on a boy. And I am pretty sure he likes me too. But you see, a ton of other girls like him too, and I am scared that I might lose his attention while I have it. What should I do? How can I keep him interested with out moving to fast?
katwashala.

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wrong idea


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 9:15 pm

16/f
Okay, well the guy i like says that i am pretty and he wants to get to know me first before anything happens. We haven't really talked that much so i'm not sure, how he is. But anyways, at a party i went to friday night, he came up to me and talked to me some and then gave me two hugs and said that he would call me that night. Well, he never called me. He hasn't called me all day today either. Also, my friend (camille) called me and she dosen't get signal where she is at right now and said that my friend i was talking to friday after the game (sandra) said that i told her that he was going to ask me out monday at school. I never told her that, i told her that i liked him and I HOPE HE ASKES ME OUT. I think she mis understood me ...

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getting to know him


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 6:09 pm

Hi I am a sophomore (f) and I have been really bored with all of the guys in my grade. I think this freshmen might like me sorta but I dont reeally know him that well.. and we have no classes together. we have had a couple IM convos but i dont want a relationship to start based on the computer. Since we dont see each other very often how do you think i should talk/get to know him.. hellppppp

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what should i do?i cheated?


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 4:30 pm

i just told my boyfriend that I've been with for a year and three months that i made out with my ex who he hates and he broke up with me he took me back but still doesn't know how he can ever trust me again what should i do?
i was with him yesterday and we were having a great time and then he just got all down
i hate the fact that i cheated on him and i know he would never do it to me
i don't know why i did it
i don't have any feelings for my ex anymore i lost those feelings when i broke up with him
please help me?

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ex boyfriend and new man?


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 2:32 pm

last night, i went on a double date w/ my friend, her boyfriend and his friend. and he's reallly cute, and super sweet and i feel like we had really good chemistry, like the 1st half of the movie, he didn't hold my hand, but before when our hands brushed, i got butterflies, and when he finally did, i got them too..
but i really seemed to like him, then i got home and looked at my exs myspace, he was my first 'love' and we have each others virginity, not to mention he and i were so comfortable with each other and stuff. and when i looked at his page, i literally got sick. he took me off his top, and the new girl he's talking too is on there. i felt like i was gonna be sick.
idk if i should keep going out w/ this guy, or call my...

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what to do about this guy...


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 1:50 pm

16/f
okay, so i'm gonna try to make this story as short as possible. there's this guy and he's liked me for a little over 2 years (he hooked up with/went out with other girls during that time but that was only during times when we were in a fight or i stopped talking to him for a little while... as soon as i started talking to him again he broke up with the girl/stopped hooking up with her. keep in mind that i didn't know that this was the reason that he broke up with the girl/stopped hooking up with her.. so i'm not like a bitch or anything i just wanted him as a friend). so anyways, i never really liked him like that until this summer. we hooked up like all summer and we went out for like a week but i didn't really want a boyfriend...

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party


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 11:46 am

16/f
I went to a party 2 weeks ago. Well while i was there, i met this guy and i thought he was pretty cute. Well we were just talking as friend kassandra is his friend. Well, i thought he was cute so she told him that. He said i was pretty but he liked some other girl to. So, two weeks later (last night) i went to another party and he was there and he started coming up and talking to me and giving me hugs and all that. He got my number from one of my friends and he said that he was going to call me when he got home from the party. Well, he never called. I'm sure something came up or something, but that's only half my problem. I am not good talking to the guys i like. I naturally get nervous and don't know what to say. I am really sh...

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What to say and who to choose???


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 11:19 am

I like these two guyz: Travis and Jack. Ive known travis since last year and hes awesome! Last year he liked me and i liked him but he was too shy to ever ask me out..We were in the same english class and sat next to eachother so we talked a lot! Now this year we only have homeroom together and we never talk any more! i wanna talk to him but i dont know what i would say!!
Now this year i met this guy jack. Well we actually didnt meet he just made me laugh! im in his art class and i sit at the same table as him and he started sayin funny things so i laughed and then he started teasing me and he sooooooooooooooo cute!!! i think he mite know im interested but idk if he even knows my NAME! I wanna get to know him better outside art but ...

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inverted nipples and boyfriend?


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 11:16 am

So i have inverted nipples and i have never told anyone about them. well this guys likes me and I like him but he is one of those guys who has like had sex already and all that so he is like a player i guess you could say. but he claims this time is different so he wants a relationship with me. the other day we madeout alot of times. and he started to go down my shirt. I stopped him b.c i didnt want to tell him. I am afraid that if we go out and i tell him he will break up with me and tell everyone. cuase he usually tells everyone everything. ahh hellp me

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I really love him...


Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 1:43 am

well my name's yvette
14/f
im currently dating someone that im like totally in love with the problem is we've only been together for a little more than a week and it usually takes me months before i tell a guy i love them even if within that period of time they've already said it to me well about the 3rd day into this relationship he busted out the 3 magic words and to my suprise i said it back...and meant it...it scares me to be falling so soon and i've been hurt so many times im afraid of how much it will hurt me if me and my current guy ever break up i love him but i put up a wall with every guy im with and it's up for him to i really want to trust him and give him everything but im scared so my question is should i tear do...

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I like him a lot


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 11:12 pm

okay so I just started my freshman year and I like this guy and I mean I really like him. but I don't even know him and I never spoke to him. it's like when he's near me,my heart begins to beat fast. and even when I think of him,I blush .ain't that stupid?lols. when I see him,I blush and squel. but I don't know him but I have those feelings like I have butterflies in my stomach when I see him. and I'm too shy to even talk to him . and he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. what should do? is this feelings weird? or normal?

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Kristopher!


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 10:25 pm

15/f
My friend Kris is like amazing
and he calls me every single night to talk, and He calls me like several times a day, and he told me im very unique, im not sure if he likes me or if he just thinks of me as a good friend, he also laughs at like everything I say, and he picks on my for being a freshman again all the time....So whats going on in his mind!!???

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he was in a dream.


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 10:12 pm

so theres this guy in my history class, and he sits behind me. i never talk to him much, but hes really cute. so i had a dream about him. and in my dream we were going out and i had like MAJOR butterflies, i didnt know it was possible to actaully feel butterflies in a dream, but i did and i woke up right after i got them. so then the next day i saw this guy it was kind of awkward for me [not for him] and then we started chatting alot. so i think im falling for this guy. just because of my dream. is this normal?!?!

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Confident girls???((boys please answer))


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 9:35 pm

((sorry if this question is on the wrong catagory))

ok,at my school((at any other school for that matter here in the US))guys always drool for the confident girls((even the shy guys)),and as for the shy girls they hardly even take notice in them.

what I want to know is that if it's true what guys say when a girl is confident they're sexy?Then what about shy girls?I know that there are shy girls out there and they are cute but does very guy always want a confident girl?





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i love him, he loves her.


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 9:13 pm

okay SO
i've known this guy since like 4th grade, right? and i've liked him on and off since then, and he says he's liked me on and off since then too.
last year we went out for a while, but i was a sucky girlfriend back then and never was able to go anywhere, so it didnt work out. a week later he got with my friend, which devastated me.
i ignored him for a few months, which was hard because he was still my friend, but it helped me to get over him.
about a month or two ago, he and this girl broke up, we started talking again, and he started confusing me like big time, acting like he liked me and saying he liked me, and his ex said he liked me & she would be okay with it if we went out, but at the same time he...

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betrayed a best friend?


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 6:57 pm

So my best friend hooked up with this guy over half a year ago.. lets call him Sam. They never actually went out and the hookup was a one or two time thing.
And shes had like 2 major boyfriends since then.
So when "Sam" asked me to hang out i wouldn't have thought it would be a big deal. Sam had his cell taken up so he called me from his house phone and told me where to meet him and then he left. As i was walking to go meet him i called my best friend just to check things wouldnt be weird.
She got extremely defensive and it was obvious that she was not okay with me meeting up with him. I told her i wasn't going to hang out with him since she sounded weird about it..
So I was going to meet up with him wh...

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Why do they all like me so much?


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 5:19 pm

Ok so I'm a 14 year old girl in 8th grade... ok anyways, I don't really consider myself popular, I'm actually pretty quiet, and I don't think I'm beautiful or hot or whatever, just pretty. But the thing that's always confused me is guys love being around me. Like, they love teasing me and making me laugh and just being around me in general, and not weird ones, either, like, really cute popular guys. I don't really know WHY though. I love hanging out with boys, I get along with them better than I do with girls. So, could it be because I have a really good, boyish-sense of humor and I laugh really easily? Do boys like making girls laugh? Anyone wanna help me out here?

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How do I know if I'm gay?


Posted Friday September 12 2008, 4:21 pm

I am 17 and my boyfriend is 20. We've been together on off for almost four years and have had a sexual relationship for pratically all of that time.

We're really great together but we aren't compatable sexually AT ALL. We have great chemistry and the lead up to sex is fantastic but the act itself is awful.

For the last year I've been questioning my sexuality. I've thought I'm bisexual for a few years, although I haven't discussed this with my boyfriend - it doesn't really come up does it. Lately though, i've becoming way more... that way inclined.

So basically, I'm unsure about my sexuality, and I don't see how I'm supposed to figure it out because I can't experiment without breaking up with my...

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