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what should i do?i cheated?
i just told my boyfriend that I've been with for a year and three months that i made out with my ex who he hates and he broke up with me he took me back but still doesn't know how he can ever trust me again what should i do?
i was with him yesterday and we were having a great time and then he just got all down
i hate the fact that i cheated on him and i know he would never do it to me
i don't know why i did it
i don't have any feelings for my ex anymore i lost those feelings when i broke up with him
please help me?
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It is going to take some time for your current boyfriend to get over what happened between you and your ex. If it were someone random guy it would still hurt, but the fact that it was your ex only adds fuel to the flame. It hurt his pride and I'm sure he felt betrayed. On the positive side, it may have given you the wakeup call you needed so that you have closure and can be sure that you are really done with your ex. If so, focus on your current relationship and earn his trust again. If you are not sure you are over your ex, now would be the time to come clean to your current boyfriend so that he doesn't continue to get hurt. If the two of you are going to stay together you will have to be trust worthy and honest with him because if you find yourself in a situation similar to this one again, you may lose your man for good.
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if he cheated on you, you'd probably have a hard time trusting him again too. you cheated on him and he prob thinks you dont love him anymore. i'm sure that's not true- you just made a mistake. let's face it- you're human and it's a human's nature to make mistakes. nobodys perfect. tell him that you love him too much to not cheat on him again and that you won't put yourself in any stituation where it could happen again. cheating can be devasating to both partners, give him time. you can't expect him to recover overnight.
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If you KNOW FOR SURE that you will NEVER cheat on your boyfriend again, tell him ONE more time.
If he can't trust you, I honestly don't see a point in you dating him. Not to be rude, but relationships should be based on trust, and if he can't trust you, I don't know why he would still be dating you.
Perhaps he can't trust you now, but thinks that maybe he can after awhile.
As for now, you need to remain faithful and reprove yourself. There isn't much more you can do.
--Jack
(16/m)
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