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I like him a lot
okay so I just started my freshman year and I like this guy and I mean I really like him. but I don't even know him and I never spoke to him. it's like when he's near me,my heart begins to beat fast. and even when I think of him,I blush .ain't that stupid?lols. when I see him,I blush and squel. but I don't know him but I have those feelings like I have butterflies in my stomach when I see him. and I'm too shy to even talk to him . and he has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. what should do? is this feelings weird? or normal?
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Aww. How cute. :)
Don't worry. Everything you're feeling is completely normal. It's a little emotion called "infatuation." It happens to a lot of people, but it mostly happens to us girls. You better get used to it, because it doesn't seem to go away!
As for what you should do, I think you should stop and enjoy this precious moment. Very rarely will you have another feeling as pure and intense as this one. If you're feeling up to it, say "hi" to him. I'm sure he isn't going to bite you.
He has a girlfriend, so you have to respect that and respect her, but for right now maybe you could be his friend. Chances are, he won't always have that girlfriend, and maybe whene she's on her way out, you can find a way to work your way in.
Stranger things have happened!
If he doesn't want to be your friend, you have to respect that too. And just remember that no matter what happens, you'll survive it. No emotion - not love nor heartache - is so intense that it can't be gotten over with a little time.
So with that in mind, enjoy your crush!
The butterflies won't last forever.
Good luck and let me know how things go. :)
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I felt the same why when I found my first love. It's completely normal for this happen.
The best you can do is just talk to him, you may be shy at first but as you get to know him better, you'll find that speaking to him becomes easier. Introduce yourself to him first before asking about himself and tell him about yourself when he asks you. Or ask your friends about who is, what he's like etc. Do this in your own time, nobody is rushing you.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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