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Okay, well the guy i like says that i am pretty and he wants to get to know me first before anything happens. We haven't really talked that much so i'm not sure, how he is. But anyways, at a party i went to friday night, he came up to me and talked to me some and then gave me two hugs and said that he would call me that night. Well, he never called me. He hasn't called me all day today either. Also, my friend (camille) called me and she dosen't get signal where she is at right now and said that my friend i was talking to friday after the game (sandra) said that i told her that he was going to ask me out monday at school. I never told her that, i told her that i liked him and I HOPE HE ASKES ME OUT. I think she mis understood me because it was loud at the party and when i was leaving she called me on the phone and i told her. She is his friend to and she rides his bus and i hope she dosen't say "Brandon! Lindsey (me) told me that you were going to ask her out today." I don't want her to say that because i don't want to have him think that i think that. I can't call her and tell her because she is out of town. What do i do?
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Hah.
Don't worry.
Next time you talk to your friend, ask her if she saw him, and what was said.
If she gave away that you want him to or think he is going to ask you out, just go talk to him. Stay around him and flirt an consider dropping a hint that you'd like to go do something some time. Let him know in case he's worried that you like the idea of him asking you out.
From there, he probably will. It can be nerve wracking trying to work up the courage to ask a girl out. Just smile at him alot and moan about how you don't have _anything_ to do this weekend and wish someone would make some plans with you to do something.
If he still doesnt ask you out and becomes really nervous, just ask him if he'd like to take you to a movie.
::Edit::
The below advice from "He's just not that into you" is incorrect. If a guy expresses interest and hugs you and says he's going to call you and doesnt, he either forgot completely (we do that, even on important things) or he's really, really nervous.
As to him actually not being interested, its possible, but unlikely. Guys who are douche bags and flirt around without caring much usually don't hug you twice and promise to call. The hugging is a sign of wanting to be physically close to you without wanting to do anything presumptuous.
Give him some wide openings the next time you see him and see how well he reads between the lines.
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Stop worrying about your friend. If he wants to ask you out, he will regardless of whatever your friend tells him. Besides, if she was a good friend, she probably wouldn't bring it up.
As for him not calling you, he might just not be that into you. If a guy likes you, he'll call you when he says he will. If he doesn't call you anytime soon, don't call him. Move onto someone who will keep their word.
(Read the book He's Just Not That into You. It's where I obtained the useful knowledge in the paragraph above.)
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Wow. First off, get your friends out of your love life business. It's okay if they're there for advice, but not if they're getting involved in how you plan carrying out this relationship.
As for the boy, you should call him. Ask him why he chose not to call you after he said he would. My ex would frequently promise to call and then never would. That's not fair to you, it just causes stress and leaves you feeling pathetic as you wait by the phone. So, call him and find out what's up. Find out how he feels about you and why he hasn't called you. As much as you like him, figure out if he's going to be worth the emotional energy and toll on you.
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