Question Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 11:16 am
So i have inverted nipples and i have never told anyone about them. well this guys likes me and I like him but he is one of those guys who has like had sex already and all that so he is like a player i guess you could say. but he claims this time is different so he wants a relationship with me. the other day we madeout alot of times. and he started to go down my shirt. I stopped him b.c i didnt want to tell him. I am afraid that if we go out and i tell him he will break up with me and tell everyone. cuase he usually tells everyone everything. ahh hellp me
He's an immature little brat who uses the "I want a relationship this time" line. He's already showed you that he's going to make moves as fast as he can.
Avoid him. Even if your nipples don't become conversation everything else you do will. Do you really want stories around your school "oh yeah she let him do this and this and this, shes a total slut" as is pretty common in high school and middle school these days.
Amarete answered Sunday September 14 2008, 2:35 am: It sounds like you haven't been dating him very long. And is he 14 like you or is he older? Because if he's 14 and he's already had sex (and told a lot of people about it), he probably isn't someone you want to tell embarrassing female secrets to.
I'd say wait longer to tell him (as in after you have dated for at least 4 months). If your relationship doesn't work out and he really is a player like you say he is, things could get ugly with him spreading your secret to the whole school out of spite.
sam08 answered Saturday September 13 2008, 1:58 pm: You haven't said how old you are and it may just be your age - nipples often do not fully develop until the late teen.. You can sometimes draw them out by gently pulling them between your finger and thumb every day over several weeks... this is completey normal im sure he wont tell any1 if you tell him not too..... [ sam08's advice column | Ask sam08 A Question ]
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