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Should I get rid of him??
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 9:40 pm
I have a boyfriend now that I've been dating for about a year and I've known him for even longer. My problem is that we fight alot..and when i say alot, i mean it.It can get pretty bad too.we fight over the most stupid things.i think alot of it is because of jealousy? maybe im not sure. anyways when we do fight i want to break up with him but then right when im about to, i get second thoughts and i dont know what it is stopping me. all my friends say i should get rid of him and i keep telling myself i will but i just never do. any suggestions??
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food
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 9:05 pm
whats a good place i can eat on a date, with no messy foods and not to expensive, and you dont have to reserve food, and you can be 15 and get in?
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My new boyfriend
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 8:33 pm
Well I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17. We just started dating 4 days ago.We have been friends for about a year and always have liked each other. Well we were always tlaking about how we wanted to make out and everything. Now that we are together he isnt paying to much attion to me and telling me we can hang out and we never do. Then one of my other friends who have dated him said he will dump me soon and his friend even said so.But he has always had something bad to say abotu others but never me. I know he likes me but I dont know how long it will last and I dont know how to get to talk to him when he wont tlak to me
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parents...
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 7:37 pm
my parents wont let me be in a house alone with my boyfriend so how am i ever going to do anything? if im never allowed to be home alone with him?
immm just under 16 by the way
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hmm dont know if i should make a move...
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 7:04 pm
ok so iam going to this homecoming dance this saturday...and there is this guy thats going to be there (hopefully) that i think is really attractive and he seems pretty cool...i dont really know him on a personal level but iam wondering if i should try to and if so how? what do guys like, if they like being approched by a girl first or if they like to do the approching...i dont know. but anyways hes really cute and iam hoping he will end up being there.
p.s. hes my bestfriends, boyfriends, close friend. (if you can follow that) haha anyways...thanks for any help!
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Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 6:18 pm
okay well what happened was that i was sitting with this guy i'm dating, (let's call him.. orange) and all of that. then my friend, let's call her apple (bisexual girl who already has a girlfriend) wanted to tell me something. and she works with orange.. like.. way way before, orange told me that he could see himself liking these two girls.. but he doesn't. so that didn't really bother me. and then today, i just found out that at his work place.. he's been flirting with alot of girls and stuff. and that everyday he grabs this one girl's booty. and then apple was like "orange, stop you have a girlfriend" and he goes like "no, we're not dating yet." and then apple was like "well still, you're not supposed to do that e...
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Ask me out already!!!
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 6:11 pm
How do I get a guy to like me enough to ask me out. In case you're wondering, I'm not like hot or anything, my chest isnt huge or anything I'm just normal and I like this guy he likes me back but not enough to ask me out .
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Grinding/Fast Dancing at a dance
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 5:25 pm
16/f
2 weeks ago i was at this dance thing at school and there was this guy i talk to a lot and i think i have a crush on him but i dont really know for sure if i do. At the dance there is a lot of grinding going on and stuff like that and he came up to me and started dancing with me. I got kind of turned on when he was dancing with me and i think he was too because i think i felt his boner but i'm not sure.
Ever since then I can not stop thinking about him and i keep on thinking about him in a sexual way. Is this normal for me to think about him like that after just grinding with him? I am going to hang out with him again so should i bring this up with him in a nonchalant way? I feel weird and creepy saying t...
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my friend
Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 2:59 pm
16/f I'm renee!
Alright well i am sorta "talking" to this guy i really like. Right now, we are just talking as friends and getting to know eachother. Well, we were really starting to click and get closer until my friend told him that i have never kissed a guy before. He still calls me but 3 of my friends have been coming up to me and telling me that he told them that if we ever go out, me not being expirienced would be a BIG problem. He told them he still likes me and he dosen't care about that, but it makes it a little more hard on the relationship if we ever went out. I don't know what to do because i am a junior and i haven't ever done that. I know people might not think it's a big deal, but it is in highschool. If a gu...
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My boyfriend is driving me crazy
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 9:28 pm
Okay, (rather long, brace yourself)
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost eight months.
And he does things that really piss me off to no end, he does really immature things, and he goes out of his way to make me feel bad about myself.
Ill give some examples.
Immaturity
When im telling him an important story, and say things like "He came really fast"
He'll laugh at the sexual content.
the other day a basket ball hit me in the face.
and i call him im like
"Jake, i was playing basketball with alyssa and the ball hit me in the face, it really hurts"
He'll laugh at the balls part.
Like, its funny the first few times, bu...
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What can we do?
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 8:06 pm
My boyfriend and i always hang out just us 2 and we really like it that way.. but lately all we've been doin is just watching movies while we talk n just hang out.. what are some other things we can do? we've gone to movies n gotten ice cream n stuff we're not big on the whole bowling and what not... and its starting to get colder.. any ideas would be helpful.. thanks.
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His birthday present..
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 8:03 pm
My boyfriends birthday is coming up soon in about a week and i want to do something or get him something sweet... he's not the "cutesy" guy he's more sarcastic so it cant be the typical stuff. I can't get him clothes because he wont let me so any ideas would be awesome. thank you in advance.
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Date Ideas
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 6:38 pm
My boyfriend is in the marines and he's coming home in November. He's coming back from Afghanastan and I haven't seen him since Christmas. I want to do something special with him when he comes home because we always go to the movies or watch a movie at my house. I want to do something different. We went ice skating once but I have no idea what to do with him. If you know any specific places near Ocean County in NJ that would help too. Thanks
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kiss
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 5:10 pm
okay so i've never kissed a guy. i've been waiting for the right person. except, i think i found him and i don't know how i would kiss/makeout with him. i'm totally lost. any tips?
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Sexual urges as a Christian
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 5:09 pm
I have been a christian off and on since I was 13. I am 22 years old now. When I was younger I have always had some sort of sexual curiosity not knowing where it all started? I am not sure why. I started playing with the idea since I hit my puberty stage. My first time was with my high school sweetheart at 15.
Long story short, I have been very sexual subconsciously and never really had a PROBLEM with controlling my urges. I also started masterbating at a young age. I believe my urges became almost non-existent after I had my son who is now 2. I started to become disgusted with it, and I was also seriously devoting my life to the Lord, puting my past behind me especially now that my new goalk was to be a Godly mother for my s...
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why?
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 3:42 pm
16/f
Okay, well i like this guy a lot and he is a year older than me. We are "talking." Well, the thing is, is that i have never kissed a guy before and my friend told him that. That is really embarrising on my part. He dosen't like shy girls and won't go for someone like that. Now, if he calls me tonight, i will be really embarresed to talk to him! He also said that if we go out then he won't know when to kiss me because i haven't done that before.
What do i do!! I finally find a guy i like and she goes off and tells him this. Every time i find a guy i like, my friends tell them that and then they don't go out with me and i don;t get a boyfriend! What do i do?
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boyfriends
Posted Monday September 29 2008, 2:52 pm
hey, okay, i'm a girl, 14, and i'm not fat but i'm not thin either, i would say i'm inbetween.
all my friends have had boyfriends or at least snogged someone. and i want a boyfriend!!! but i flirt, but after that i'm sort of a dud. and when my friends are all on the pull, i feel sort of awkward; because as sad as this is i'm sort of scared about my first kiss... what can i do?
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I think i love him...
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 11:05 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 months. We've had sex and he was my first but i def. wasnt his. I'm head over heels for this guy.. its just that feeling when he holds me or kisses me i've never felt this way before and i've caught myself almost sayin i love you twice now but i stop myself. Is it too early to say it? should i even say it? what if he doesnt feel the same way and he freaks out n thinks its getting too serious.. ahh help.
p.s. he has made little comments like when he picks on me he'll go ha you love me.
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heyy. its highschool, and im just picky
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 6:47 pm
15/f
I hang out with a feww cool kids, Im under 5 feet, 95 lbs, adorable, smart but closeminded. I think Im great but not enough to be cocky.
Point is, Ive never kissed a guy and I cant figure out why. People are usually shocked when I tell them, and that makes me feel special :]
Could that be what's keeping me from kissing a guy or getting a boyfriend? If so, how do I stop it?
Also Ive only had three boyfriends. I want a really really close companion I can trust [a boyfriend, yeah]. Im just TERRIFIED of asking around and getting rejected, ruining a friendship, being made fun of. Any tips to help me?
Also, my history teacher said Im biased. I tried looking it up but didn't get much feedback. Soo..w...
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my boyfriend is so amazing i cant help wondering if hes really for real?
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 1:20 pm
14/F
Im skeptic about boys.
1. My mom told me theyr all bad & only want one thing.
2. The boy im intrested in has a reputation for being a player.
3. I like him so much & im so worried about getting hurt
4. Any of my friends whove had boyfriends have gotten their hearts broken.
Our story:
We started dating in 6th, it didnt get serous till 7th, we almost dated in 8th.
& now we talk 24/7. Honestly when im not talking to him im sleeping.
So basically wev dated on & off for 4 years.
& during those off times of course ive liked other boys. But when i heard a love song hes the only one id think about.
He was my first & o...
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