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my boyfriend is so amazing i cant help wondering if hes really for real?
14/F
Im skeptic about boys.
1. My mom told me theyr all bad & only want one thing.
2. The boy im intrested in has a reputation for being a player.
3. I like him so much & im so worried about getting hurt
4. Any of my friends whove had boyfriends have gotten their hearts broken.
Our story:
We started dating in 6th, it didnt get serous till 7th, we almost dated in 8th.
& now we talk 24/7. Honestly when im not talking to him im sleeping.
So basically wev dated on & off for 4 years.
& during those off times of course ive liked other boys. But when i heard a love song hes the only one id think about.
He was my first & only
Kiss, boyfriend, etc.
& i have a very flirty personality. & he gets jelous. & other girls love him.
So my questions are:
1. How do i know hes for real? True, out of all the times wev broken up hes only done it once, & that was 6th grade. But it was because he met another girl in camp.
He writes me poems, he sits with me in all my classes, walks me to my locker, sits with me during lunch, makes plans about the future, he tells me that hes mine & that when wer together he dosent think about anyone else.
Well text or stay on the phone until midnight, wakeup & text eachother asap.
To me it seems too much to be real especially @ 14. How long is it going to be until we both feel totally suffocated?
He says wer going to be together forever. Forever is areally long time. & if hes the only boyfriend ive had, how do i know hes the one?
I cant end things because after it being so serous it would make me so sad.
Any opinions?
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Yes, I agree with what the last person said.
People do change believe me, I am not the same person I was a year ago. You are only 14 years old, Imagine what you will be like when you reach 16,17 or even 18. At 14, You just had you're first kiss, boyfriend etc.
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Meh.
You don't know he's the one. You won't know for years. At 14 it seems like you could be together forever. Everything is perfect.
In a year, you will both be different people. You might still be compatible, you might not.
Two years, same story.
Five years, same story.
13-25 is the period of largest change in a person's life. Its the point where they transition to adult and establish themselves as people. Its when they learn and figure out how to exist, establish their morals, etc.
In five years, you won't be the same person you are now. You won't see the world the same way. Most people learn to love young to prepare themselves for when they are truly ready to find someone.
And theres no such thing as soul mates. There are just people you are compatible with at a given point in your lives.
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