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okay well what happened was that i was sitting with this guy i'm dating, (let's call him.. orange) and all of that. then my friend, let's call her apple (bisexual girl who already has a girlfriend) wanted to tell me something. and she works with orange.. like.. way way before, orange told me that he could see himself liking these two girls.. but he doesn't. so that didn't really bother me. and then today, i just found out that at his work place.. he's been flirting with alot of girls and stuff. and that everyday he grabs this one girl's booty. and then apple was like "orange, stop you have a girlfriend" and he goes like "no, we're not dating yet." and then apple was like "well still, you're not supposed to do that even when you're about to go out with somebody" and like.. everyone that worked there got mad at him. and he's known as a pervert there. and i got soo mad today at school! i wanted to cry, but i didn't. now, i don't know what to do.. ever since 4th period, he's been following me around. and i've been ignoring him cause he KNOWS that i'm mad at him. for example, today after school he was following me.. and then i ran off with this one guy. and then he followed me in the orchestra room, then i left him again.
he doesn't flirt with girls at school, but when he works he does -_____-" even this one girl commented him and was like "idk why they hate you, just stop flirting with so many girls" and then he goes "can i still flirt with you?" and she goes like "Uhhh.. no, that'd be awkward" and then he goes "yeah, i'm about to go out with this one girl anyways.. i don't think she'll like it" and he still does it.
..&& no, apple doesn't like orange. apple is my best friend, and she told me this so i could make the right choice. and i've gone out with orange before, but broke up three years ago. but, this is something new.
what should i do?! help me please
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This is a tough situation. This si wherre you have to decide weather to belive your BEST friend or your BOYfriend. See. This is a tough situation. I'm going to tell you who to choose. But go and talk to 'orange'. Ask him be like is this true. Bear in mind that he might lie. Ask 'apple' if shes okay with going with you to confront him. It would be easier to just do it like that. If shes not comfertable don't tell him your source just ask him. If he deny's it. Just be like okay, but don't do it i'm not saying I don't belive you it's just that I have to listen to both sides. Deside if you want to stay with him. If you do just be like okay, just stop and don't do it.
I hope this kinda make sence.
good luck
if you want though, if you don't get it, drop me a personal question and i'll explain it better.
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I would believe your best friend Apple. It sounds like there are way too many witnesses that know how he is when he is not around you. Your buddy orange obviously has some "issues", he obviously is not ready for the kind of relationship you want out of him. I could tell you to sit and talk with him, but it sounds to me that he will be like "yea, I will change for you" and someone catch him up 5 minutes later messing with another girl. I assume this is highschool. Guys have natural ADD at this age, and he will just keep bobbin all over the place trying to get ANY girl's attention. I dont think he cares about you enough to preserve your feelings no matter what you say. I would just tell him, "look, I liked you, but I dont want want to be one of your hobbies on the side. Sorry, I dont want to be with you anymore because you just dont seem to care." Because even if you tried to work things out with him, do you really believe you can trust where he is and who he is flirting with, what if its more than flirting? I wouldnt want to put myself through all that minor drama when you got enough crap to worry about. Hope this helps.
PS Him following you around is not remorse that you are mad at him and feels bad, its because he wants another form of ATTENTION from you. Sounds to me like he is an attention whore.
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