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Ask me out already!!!


Question Posted Tuesday September 30 2008, 6:11 pm

How do I get a guy to like me enough to ask me out. In case you're wondering, I'm not like hot or anything, my chest isnt huge or anything I'm just normal and I like this guy he likes me back but not enough to ask me out .

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LOL_x0x answered Saturday October 4 2008, 11:20 am:
Don't force him into anything. Pushing him and putting pressure on him to ask you out will only make him want to ask you out less.


That being said, have you tried talking to him about it? Just bring it up one day with something like, "So, I really like you and I think you like me. Would you ever consider taking our friendship to the next level?"


And if he says no, then that's perfectly ok. Just explain to him that you thought it might be a nice idea because you thought you liked one another.


-Laura (16-f)

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pseudophun answered Thursday October 2 2008, 3:10 am:
Ask him out. It takes balls, I know, but if he doesn't have them then you should. It's no less terrifying for a guy to ask out a girl than it is for girls to ask out guys. Break the norm and just do it. If he says no, ask out someone else. As Nike says "Just do it".

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Dontyoufakeit13 answered Thursday October 2 2008, 1:46 am:
You cant Get a guy to ask you out lol but you could have one of your guy friends talk to him about it and give him some tips on HOW to ask you out..Give him some time hes probably jus nervous.

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EncounterMeLord answered Wednesday October 1 2008, 4:59 pm:
You might not be the prettiest girl on the block, but you are still a girl. And no offense but he is a guy right. So what if you dont think you have the best features. He likes you right? Then the hard part is over, maybe he doesnt think you are GF material. You gotta be a lil more feminine to pull that off. You can look hot and still feel comfortable without looking trashy. I am sure you have no problems thinking of places to go and hang out, so find something mutual that you are both down to do. Whether you call it "hanging out" or a "date". It doesnt matter, when you guys meet up smell good, straiten or curl your hair, leave it down. Hair brushing against your face is always a slight turn on, plus it can be an execuse for the guy to move it away from your eyes with his hands if you guys are talking. Speaking of eyes, you dont have to over do it, but enhance them a bit so they pop out. Speaking of pop out you should have a push up bra, id you don, get one. Find a shirt that will show it off a little bit, make sure its not a shirt that shows off your bra. Get a long shirt, ones that are in style. So no tummy or booty cracks may show when bending or walking. (trust me, guys are more inticed with someone who doesnt look trashy, more like classy, and yet can leave things to the imagination) Get some hoops (they are versatile with any outfit) or studs if you prefer if you wear earrings. You want to draw some attention to your neck as well, by doing the earring thing. Something that is comfy and yet sexy is low-ride boot cut jeans, they work really good with ANY shirt, and it accents your butt. If you are uncomfortable with it, you dont have to but... black boots are more comfy and more classy than sandaled heels or flats. And when you walk your posture is better with heels and it accents your walk. If you you dont have boots, go with a sleek slip on flat. Not like the van ones, but the kind that make your feet look petite, and if you go with those flats, go with the skinny jeans to give you that punk class look. Phew.. ok.. Dont stress out, act natural. Even if you look different for a min, it doesnt mean you are different. You just look cuter being you, not that you arent already. Hope this helps. Let me know if it works out for you. :D

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