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parents... my parents wont let me be in a house alone with my boyfriend so how am i ever going to do anything? if im never allowed to be home alone with him?
immm just under 16 by the way
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This is the same exact way my parents are. They were the same way for my other two sisters as well. They're just preventing us from doing something that we'll regret. Once they know and believe you won't do anything stupid, they will let you alone with him. And like it was mentioned, 15-16-year olds aren't the brightest people, so your parents are just guiding you to be smarter and more mature. ]
Your parents are just worried that you're going to do something "stupid", and many people under sixteen ARE stupid, so they worry correctly. If you REALLY want to have some "alone" time with him though, try cars and parks. They always worked for me. ]
There's other alternative to this. My Dad was strict with me and my boyfriend being together, so we found alternative ways to be "closer" try asking to go to his house to work on a project ]
it might take time but just have your parents gain your trust and once they trust you, they might let you be alone with him ]
its ok. my parents are the same way
maybe ask him if you can go to his house
and you always dont have to do "stuff" with him
go to the movies or something
when i wanna see my boyfriend
we just go to the park and stuff
and its cuteee.
or have him come over when you parents arent home
this way you can do stuff without them knowing he was ever there (: ]
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