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My new boyfriend
Well I am 15 and my boyfriend is 17. We just started dating 4 days ago.We have been friends for about a year and always have liked each other. Well we were always tlaking about how we wanted to make out and everything. Now that we are together he isnt paying to much attion to me and telling me we can hang out and we never do. Then one of my other friends who have dated him said he will dump me soon and his friend even said so.But he has always had something bad to say abotu others but never me. I know he likes me but I dont know how long it will last and I dont know how to get to talk to him when he wont tlak to me
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Hi,
the last thing you should do when it comes to any relationship is listen to what other people have to say about it. If you have a question about what's going on, ask him. YOu have to learn that early. You've only been dating for 4 days. That's too soon to judge anything. Some boys like the chase, maybe now that he has you, he wants to be on to the next. I don't know him. YOu have to judge that for yourself since you've known him for a year, but like I said, things can change once you start dating.
The next time you see him, tell him that the two of you need to talk. There could be legitimate reasons why he hasn't had time for you. Confront him and take it from there. I hope I helped.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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Seventeen year old boys are like that. They often don't know what they want in a relationship. Maybe he will dump you, maybe he won't, but it's not about him, it's about you and how you will respond in either situation. If he leaves you, just remember that you were warned, and be prepared for it. If he stays you need to find some way to communicate with him; it will be hard but well worth it if you can get through to him.
If you aren't happy with your current situation change it, and remember you're young enough that you can find many more people before you settle down (MANY MORE) but if you're happy with it and are willing to wait for him to figure himself out then wait and don't listen to anyone else.
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