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I see something different when I look at myself?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 10:57 pm

I don't understand why when I look at myself in any mirror I see someone that looks completely different from all of my pictures. In the mirror I see me with normal shaped face. Not too long. And I look pretty in the mirror. Yet when other people look at me or when I look at pictures, I have an extremely long face and I'm just plain ugly. I've even had friends comment on how long my face is so its not just the pictures. When I was younger, looking back at the pictures you would think that when that girl grew up, that she would be really pretty. So why do I see myself in the mirror differently than others see me? Am I going crazy?

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What should I do?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 9:56 pm

I'm male/17. I like this girl, she's a year older than me. We barely know eachother. She's very quiet, and I'm shy. I don't talk to girls much. I want to get to know her more, but she doesn't seem interested. She gave me her number after I nervously asked for it in an indirect way. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, I called once each day. (Except for Sunday, I missed her call so I called back a few times) Also, my phone accidentally called her at around 1:40am. But anyway, she didn't answer each day, so on Sunday I left a voice message. We spoke later that night, and I basically asked her if she wanted to go out to eat on Monday. She basically said no. I wanted to ask her a few things but I didn't want to seem creey and/or desperate and annoyin...

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my fiance dont trust me


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 8:38 pm

ok im looking for a job and my best friends brother which is also my mother's friend and i ddint tell my fiance that i knew the guy personally but he went throught on my facebook and find out who it was and he called me he is so mad and think that i've been lying to him lying to him for a long time and my mom saw me crying and called him and he called me child and he said that he doesnt wanna continue and i dont know what to do i love him with all my life that man is my evrything what do i do?



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I Love Him but I HATE him!


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 8:34 pm

Hey, sorry if I'm bothering you guys with so much needed advice about my boyfriend, but I'm in another situation with him. We have been dating for over a year now. I live in Illinois and my faimly wanted to move to Florida but I didnt want to because I wanted to stay with my boyfriend. So my boyfriends mom decided to take me in because she is a kind woman. Yet, there is one problem. I hate my boyfriend. He use to be kind to me, but all he is now is a controlling freak and I dont know why but I am in so much love with him and Im afraid of losing him. Im leaving for the Navy Oct 1st so Im living with him until then. first of all he always even in the past would break up with me and then have sex with me. Like once he had sex with me and then ...

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should I date him or not


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 7:59 pm

I have a friend whom I have known for about 4yrs.. I knew this guy when I was 16 and he was 28... Now I am 20 and his 32 and we both like and care about eachother a lot... But I am too scared to date him because of the age difference, I am still in the university and his a working class guy... He talks about starting a long term relationship that would lead to marriage but I don't know if he would want to spend the rest of his life with me I am still quite young for marriage and I have planned to get married at 26 but I don't know if he would want to wait that long since I am still young I love him and I want to be with him but I am afraid he would move on along the way when he sees I am not ready pls tell me what to do

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I want to go further with my boyfriend


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 6:04 pm

Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 mo., we kiss a lot, making out etc. He asked about sex, I told him I was waiting till 18, and he was very respectful. We have a really great relationship, but I would like to go further, not sex but more than kissing. He's coming over today so please respond ASAP, how do I let him know w/o being awkward that I want to go a little further? Any signals, ect..? Thanks.

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In debt, in school and want to buy a home and live comfortably!


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 3:10 pm

Hello, I am 22 and will be attending my last year of school an hopefully get my social work diploma. So far there have been some budget cuts to the social services sector in Ontario (Canada) and I am concerned about the quality of work I will be able to get when I graduate. I anticipate I will be about 4000 in debt when I finish school, as I have saved all my life and have been able to pay for most of everything myself (school, braces, books, clothes etc). My family was never really financially "comfortable" and so I have never been the spoiled child. I have been dating someone for 6 yrs and he too comes from a similar background and not financially comfortable. I love to go out and do things with him (travel, camp, shows etc) but...

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I'm on fight with m family then m sis tempered So I insulted her she's sad


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 1:59 pm

so here my story I am fighting with my parents everyday .Because they never let me go out and also they never take me out to hav fun like other teen So when my sis came from work .She talked 2 me and I was sitting in the living room:((you remember me my friend she is short and wear like you)). Me in my mind :((short ha)) then she walk away.I was sitting and doing nothing so she came again and said:((y your sitting like a zombie)).So I got angry and said :((leave me alone I swear the god I will beat you if you don't)) then she said:((drawf))because I am too short SoI stand and insulted her said :((oh your height is very useful to yourshelf .Where is your husband?!)) because she is old and she don't marry until now lol then she get angry and ...

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How do I tell my 7 year old and 4 year old that I had another baby by someone else while I was using drugs?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 1:38 pm

I'm 30. Years old and I have a 7year old and a4year old about 10 months ago I got clean from drugs I had a really bad year of using and I left my husban he took the boys down south to get a way from everything so now that I'm clean I have had the boys up every few months the thing is I have another child 7 months ago and the ex husban has wanted me to not tell the boys fearing they would not understand. Well my boys are going to be coming up on Monday and I have already told my ex I can't hide him anymore so when they get here I'm going to stay at my Moms and leave the baby with his dad and spend a day with just them my question is how do I tell them about there half brother I just don't want to hurt my boys anymore then I already have but I can't hide there brother from them please help

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Letter to my father - Long an I apologize


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 1:25 pm


My father and I have always had our differences. His wife is my step mother whom I never truly got along with I just always tried to be mutual. My step mother has a very obnoxious her way or the high way type of personally. Over time I grew up and realized that little by little she was controlling my father. My relationship with him slowly drifted apart, He called me less and less. I moved out of my parents house and got my first apartment back in 2009 and my father only came to visit me once in the 11 months I was there. My eldest sister was also on rocky terms with him as well as my step mother and my sister never got along because she always tried to walk the whole "This is how you parent your children" and there was a...

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What kind of hair colors match my skin tone?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 11:36 am


My skin tone is like this:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/81389812@N03/7457233430/in/photostream

I already have the same colored hair as her. I want to have 2 colors in my hair. Are there any other colors that match my skin tone?

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A present to show him I am missing him?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 11:06 am

I am currently on my vacation which will last for two months in the US. I want to get something for my boyfriend to show him that i missed him and i still love him. something not too big or expensive, Any ideas?

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I don't know what to do with him anymore


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 10:30 am

I don't know what to do with my boyfriend since he keeps hanging up on me,he just stops calling me for the whole day,he acts as though he was actually playing with me,he knows I am very sensitive and overemotional,and he seems to take advantage of that.The thing is that I don't wanna dump him,I cannot imagine my life without him;right away I start missing him a lot,I cry a lot and he knows this;so everytime we have the slightest argument he hangs up on me and spends the rest of the day without calling me or texting me,this situation sucks and I don't want it anymore,but I just don't know what to do,I don't know what to do with him.Last night we sorted things out but he warned me that if we start a fight again, he'll do the same no matter ho...

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how to make a virgin have sex with me


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 9:15 am

how i made my virgin girlfriend to have sex with me


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Do you think my husband has anger issues or bi-polar?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 7:03 am

I'm so confused. My husband is the most wonderful person in the world and would do anything for me when things in our relationship are good. But when he gets upset it's like he can't handle it. He completly looses his cool. He yells, and tells me the lost horrible things to get to me. But when we are not arguing he's a completly different person. He can go from being nice and happy to being angry. He acts violent to other people when he gets mad. He has gotten into a fight with his brother numerous time over stupid things. He gets angry over very stupid things. He'll throw a tantrum, scream, cuss, punch holes in the wall and knock things down. He goes from being the nicest person ever to very mean and angry. He tried to fight a security gua...

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i need to feel more relaxed help!


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 3:55 am

ok so i'm a person that has stress and worries that are really dumb because there worries about anything and always negative but that's not my main worry because iv learned to think positive. the main worry is that i have sweaty palms i already tried to mentally stop because i know that its mentally and that sweating is part of life but i just want a diet for feeling relaxed. maybe then ill be able to stop my sweaty palms. someone tell me a cheap and some healthy ways on eating to reduce sweat or something to decreased sweating so much ...thanks!!(:

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Should i ask him out of be friends?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 3:24 am

Ok so i like this guy hes shy but hes getting better at opening up. i was planing on never telling him that though, but he recently said he liked me.I was happy,but he said he didn't want to ruin the friendship we had and that was the same reason i also wasn't planing on telling him.I told him that i liked him too.Now we just continue to talk normally on the phone and its still the same but i feel like him telling me his feelings about me was going to be different but its not he just acts like nothing happened so i think he just wants to be friends. i'm going to hang with him this weekend so i'm thinking of maybe talking about this in person because on the phone it makes it hard to understand. Someone give me advice on what to say when i'm...

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Would they delete it?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 12:48 am

Does anyone here think they would read a *very, very, very* long question? Will the Advicenators team delete it because it's too long? What id I have to slit it into 2 questions?

Thank you all in advance! I will put the link in additional info for anyone who's interested! It'll hopefully be up in a few days, maybe a week. This question is important to me so I want to know how everyone will react to it and if you'll actually read the whole thing.

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Still Missing My Ex.. and it's been 4 years


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 12:23 am

I'm sorry this is so long, but I want to give you all the full story! THank you so much for reading!


I recently started dating this really wonderful guy named Tim who is the sweetest, nicest person to me and I am extremely grateful that I met him. I've never had a boy treat me the way he does.

That being said, when I was in high school, I dated a boy I liked for about 3 months. I had gone through 4 relationships (this one being my second) in my high school career, and I can basically boil them down to petty, short high school relationships that were fun while they lasted. However, this one that I dated, we'll call him Carl, was someone that I just became so connected to. I liked everything about him a...

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How can i get my boyfriend to kiss me without makeing the first move


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 12:16 am

Well my boyfriend is like really shy and is not at all intimate with me in any way .ive read other articles about this and all of them are telling me I should make the first movebut the problem is I'm also very shy so I was wondering is their a way for me to like entice him to make the first move.pleeeaaaassseee help!

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