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What should I do?
I'm male/17. I like this girl, she's a year older than me. We barely know eachother. She's very quiet, and I'm shy. I don't talk to girls much. I want to get to know her more, but she doesn't seem interested. She gave me her number after I nervously asked for it in an indirect way. Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, I called once each day. (Except for Sunday, I missed her call so I called back a few times) Also, my phone accidentally called her at around 1:40am. But anyway, she didn't answer each day, so on Sunday I left a voice message. We spoke later that night, and I basically asked her if she wanted to go out to eat on Monday. She basically said no. I wanted to ask her a few things but I didn't want to seem creey and/or desperate and annoying, so I haven't called since Sunday. I was thinking about calling on the weekend. Should I? Should I give up? What should I do?
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Well, it really depends on why she said no. Did you suggest another date?
Basically, if she said no because she had plans, and she was interested, she would have suggested another day and time when she was indeed free.
It does sound like she's not interested, I'm afraid. You can still text her now and again: texting it better because she can respond when she wants, even if she if busy. Ask her if she can suggest another time for a date.
But if your instincts tell you that she is not interested, then just move on. There is no point in wasting your time, and the more time you spend on her, the more you will probably fall for her.
Of course she may be playing hard to get, but it's best to text her and be friendly still, and to test the water with her.
Good luck.
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