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How do I get over him?
So this boy I was with for about two years hasnt really been talking to me. Im kinda over him but he still crosses my mind alot. I had a dream last night about how our relationship used to be. I woke up crying. He was my first REAL boyfrined. He was my bestfriend. My everything kind of. He helped me through any and everything but how do i tell myself to move on to someone else? Without feeling like crap :/
14 female
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It's always hard to forget our first love. I admit I still think about my first boyfriend, but I don't think "Oh I wish I could be with him" I always think, "It was good while it lasted." Or "We were so cute" It doesn't really mean I'd go back to him, I'm sure I don't want that. I want something different. Now, I think it's best if you start talking to other people,guys who can help you see what it is that you want. DO you want someone more arrogant, someone nicer, someone fun, someone dorky etc. I wouldn't advise to be flirting around with every guy you see, why? Because afterwards you'll be seen as the tease, or the slut and you yourself will feel bad because maybe one or two of them will want more then you are willing to give. Don't get into a relationship to see if you can forget him, because you or the other person will most likely get hurt. Just take your time, analyze things and don't rush anything. Best of luck [:
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Moving on is always hard, especially for girls. Guys move on rather quickly, I dont understand why though. But yea, I think you should put yourself out there and start trying to meet new guys and flirt. It'll make you feel better and help you move on quicker. Hope I helped!
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It will definitely take some time to get over him. You just have to let yourself do it. You're getting over him slowly and it will take awhile for you to stop having those thoughts of missing him. It still happens to me sometimes.
In the mean time, do other things to keep your mind off him. You deserve to be happy and not have some guy take over your mind right?
Be happy that he was important and a good influence in your life. He's just one person that was passing through your life. There are probably going to be many more.
Go enjoy your life and eventually you'll move on to someone better.
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Hello,look since hes your first real boyfriend then its ganna be exteremely hard for you to move on.
First,you have to put in mind and truely believe that you haveno feelings for him and that you are ready to live your life without thinking of him.
Go out with your friends,go to the mall,get your nails done,have some fun,get a job,focus on your studies,occupy yourself in order not to think of him.
You can also try make new guy friends,that will help you move on and maybe have another real boyfriend.
Why would you feel like crap?its normal for you to try to move on since you guys arent together anymore,its a part of life,accepting reality and moving on for the better.
You have your whole life ahead of you,your still 14,im sure youlle meet other decent guys that will make you feel speacial.
For now,live tour teenage life,and have fun to the maximum.
Live your life wigh no regrets,life goes on and people come and go so dont worry!
Oh and if you still really love him,and have deep true feeling toward him then why dont you talk to him and show him how you truely feel about him?what have you got to lose?speak your heart out and be yourself,what if he cant move on too?
Goodluck.hope i helped.
A.I
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