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So single
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 7:19 pm
Theres a boy I think I like, who is a bit interested in me. I just don't know how to get him to definetly like me. We've "known" eachother since elementry school and now we're sophmores in high school, but we were never actually friends. I see him everyday and we don't really talk and I'm sorta bad at conversation with people I don't know well enough. I've been single practically all my life and it doesn't make much sence- everybody tells me its because im a beautiful young confident black female that causes the problme. For a teenager, its pretty hard to find girls like me apperantly, because I'm not ghetto, I'm smart- almost nerdy smart, I was homecoming princess, I'm captain of the jv cheerleading at my school and I know alot o...
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Most confusing guy ever, no lie.
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 5:03 pm
Sorry this is long, but i really need help.
So i dated a guy for about a week. then we broke up. well i really like him. and i was very upset when we broke up. well one night we were with some friends. and he was holding me in his arms something i missed very much. and i thought maybe he misses me and wants me back. at that time we started making out. and then the next day he didnt really say much to me. ands i was like wtf okay whatever. the next weekend we kissed again and really made out this time. and he held me as tight as he possibly could. and it felt like he didnt want to let go. and i was sure he wanted me back. well i sent him a message and said hey what was all that about. he replyed back and said he wasnt sure. an...
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my boyfreind
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 4:56 pm
my boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me. he madeout with a girl when he was drunk and i forgave him.
a few monthes later he didnt call me one night and then he called the next night saying his phone charger was messed up and he was sick and fell asleep at six. that weekend i figured out he lied to me and was really drinking with 2 gay guys and two girls. i dont have a problem with gay people but this guy always flirts with my boyfriend.
should i give him another chance.?
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confused relationship
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 4:55 pm
ok well i got a new boy frined we talked for like 2 weeks and i blame my self for not getting to know him completely but i didnt think things would change like they have when we were talking he was the sweetest guy to me he made me realy happy and special he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes we have been together 3 weeks and well im not as happy any more he doesnt do any thing now it seems like he doesnt care he wont call or text unless i do it first he doesnt treat me like his girl friend i dont know what to do i want him to care about me show it and mean it like he said he would i have talked to him about this and he said i am to sensitve and i get mad to easly but im not even mad im just confused and kinda sad on why things ha...
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hung up with the "bad guys"
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 2:22 pm
okay so i just got out of a bumpy ride with some other guy. it wasnt even a relationship. but it was just like an interest deal.
but thats not what im here to talk about.
there is this guy who really likes me. hes older and hes been nothing but nice and sweet to me. but everybody who knows him says hes a total ass. and when i talked to him he said that everybody thinks hes a dick and thats because they cut to conclusions. i know that they hate him bc he only wants sex from girls but what he told me was something really personal about his life that nobody really knows. from hearing that hes obviously been through alot. well he knows that im not the type of girl who goes around and has sex with random guys. so idk why he...
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How to 'Play Hard to get'
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 10:07 am
14/f
I've heard the expression to 'Play hard to get' but how exactly do you do that? Like what are some things you do to play hard to get? Thanks (;
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Does he like me?
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 3:51 am
so i like this guy named G and im not sure if he likes me. in general G is a really flirty guy but when he is with me is really flirty and touchy like EXTREMELY touchy and flirty sexual. we talked on video chat for 3 hours and he and i have a very strong friendship. how can i tell if he likes me or is just flirting for fun?
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should i convert my religion for him?
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 3:19 am
17/F
Alright, so this question is going to make me sound extremely stupid, but should I convert my religion to try to get with this guy that i really like? He's mormon, and I looked up some stuff and it says that mormons can only date other mormons. I really want to be with him. We dont actually know each other. Ive introduced myself twice and he thinks im crazy, but I want him to notice me in a good way and i think going to his church and being all mormon will be a good way to get his attention and show him that im right for him.
Plus I have no real religion as of right now. I mean I believe in God and all that but I dont go to church.
Any advice will be appriciated
Thanks <3
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Friends with Ex
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 2:31 am
17/f. I dated a guy for about a month. He and I liked each other and we clicked, but we never get to see each other except on the weekends. So we've both been thinking that it wouldn't work out because of that, and very recently we decided to not date anymore because of it. We have a whole lot in common, but we just haven't been able to really get to know each other at all. I'm not mad at him about it because I agree with his reasoning. However, we both decided that we want to still be friends because we really do get along well... I'm just not sure how to do that. I'm frustrated at the situation because we only have like one mutual friend. So it's not like I can keep calling him or texting him all the time. I know it will take tim...
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best friend boy new
Posted Sunday October 26 2008, 12:10 am
theres a guy and we've been great friends for 6 years and this year we gotten so much closer we hang out atleast once a week and he says things like hes wants to be by me and wnts to sit with me and like we talk about college (im 15)and he says that he wants me to be his dorm buddie and he offers to buy things for me, plays with my hair , hold the door and says nice things about me. we both manipulate each other by doing things like he gets me to go somewhere if i really don't want to and i get him to go places too and we sing <3songs to eachother and he put his arm around me once idk if he likes me more than a friend or whats the deal? * latley hes been like talking to many girls and like doing some of the same stuff like it seems like ...
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How do you know...
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 11:45 pm
I really love this guy, and he loves me too... But how do you know if your really in love? I really do love him, I just want to know if anyone else can describe how you know... I can't seem to put it into words.
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i dont know what 2 do about it :.(
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 10:10 pm
me(13) and my bf(17)weve been together for about 2 and a half months and i love him w/ all my heart and i know he does 2 but for the past couple weeks he hasnt acted like it at all.i mean he still says that he loves me and evrything when we talk like on the phone which is like 2times aweek now when it used 2 b evryday.and like we barely evr c each other bc we go 2 dif. schools but he only started acting like this since he gota job but i have noidea wat todo or thnk like evryday iwant2 cry I DNT NO WAT 2 DO
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Boyfriend vs. Summer Boy
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 8:01 pm
16/f
Over the summer I broke up with my boyfriend Troy for a little while because I started liking this guy, Steve. Me and Steve kissed a few times (when me and Troy were broken up, of course) and he was adorable and we both ended up liking each other a lot (we never went further than kissing. He lived in another town far away and sometimes he would come up to my house and just chill with me. When me and my boyfriend started dating again I let Steve go so i could focus on making my relationship better. Steve decided to get a girlfriend just to piss me off and he ended up hating me. I haven't talked to Steve since the beginning of August. I think about Steve all the time. I get butterflies in my stomach just thinking about h...
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bet with my bf...um i need some ideas! please!
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 7:03 pm
okay well me and my boyfriend of 2 and half months made a bet. the bet was that when our favorite football teams play against each other whos ever team win the loser has to do what ever the winner wants (ANYTHING!) and i have no clue on what to do!:( it be if i could get some ideas thanks ahead of time!!
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how to get a flirty guy to like me?
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 4:51 pm
15/f/uk
So, I like this guy.
I met him in august (so a couple months back) at this organisation, which involved me and a load of other people my age from around the area, staying at this uni for a few days.
I didn't speak to him much, but once we happened to be walking to the same place. It was just us, and I didn't say anything cause I'm really shy. He walked up so he was walking beside me and said, 'y'alright?'. So we done the whole "yeah, you, im good thanks" thing. Then he paused, looked at me and said, "so, i don't think i know your name...." so i told him, and asked his (even though i aleady knew) and was like, 'cool'. And then we just talked and joked about where we we...
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helpp?
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 4:34 pm
so ive liked this guy for about 2 months, and up until now hes liked me back. well we get into fights a lot, but i always end up apoligizing bc i know he wont bc hes so goddamn stubborn lol. hes a year younger than me. im a freshman and hes in 8th grade so its hard to see him a lot. he started liking me fist btw. well he used to say ily when he said goodbye, and be like please dont go, and text me 24/7 and try really hard to see me, but the last few days hes been different. like i have to text him first and he doesnt text back a lot. Also, he hasnt said ily in forever, and when i went to his football game, when he was about to leave, i was going to give him a peck, and he turned and gave me his cheek? i dont understand. like he said he rea...
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shyness.
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 3:15 pm
I'm fifften-year-old girl. My boyfriend is my brother's friend and he is really shy. Not just in front of my brother, but all the time. Sometimes he acts like we're just friends, and other times he acts like he loves me. What is goin' on?
How can I make him open up?
How should I flirt with him to make him flirt back?
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eeeeek; songs about wanting to let go, but you can't because you love them.
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 2:41 pm
Any song suggestions would be great.
I'm having way too many emotions running through my head.
Thanks so much!
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My girlfriend's big secret
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 2:13 pm
Dear YG,
I have a girlfriend, we've been together for a few weeks now, but she has already made it evident that she has secrets about her life that she is not comfortable with telling me. I was not too worried about them until her friends mother, (who she lives with) let me in on a big secret, but made me swear not to tell my girlfriend that I know. She told me last night because me and my girlfriend were fighting over sexual issues. The problem was, that I was kissing her, and touching her, and we were about to have sex, but all she wanted to do was kiss, and she was very reluctant to have sex, or touch me, but all she gave was a lot of far fetched excuses. This irritated me because this has been going on for the past week o...
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ex games.
Posted Saturday October 25 2008, 2:01 pm
Me and my ex when we were together were just so perfect together we both just tottallyyy fell in love with eachother. At the end of our relationship we just started fighting alot because I wasnt sure what I wanted. All my friends were turning 18 and going out and I just wanted to do that to, soo I started fighting with him over stuff that I used to be okay with, like not going out with out him and so on. So we had a huge blow out and broke up. We both said some pretty unforgivable stuff to eachother. I tried to get him back but he just said he wasnt meant for a girlfriend. He drinks so much now and goes out so much just is totally lost. About 2 months ago I met someone else and we started dating. My ex will call dave, dave started coming ba...
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