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how to get a flirty guy to like me?
15/f/uk
So, I like this guy.
I met him in august (so a couple months back) at this organisation, which involved me and a load of other people my age from around the area, staying at this uni for a few days.
I didn't speak to him much, but once we happened to be walking to the same place. It was just us, and I didn't say anything cause I'm really shy. He walked up so he was walking beside me and said, 'y'alright?'. So we done the whole "yeah, you, im good thanks" thing. Then he paused, looked at me and said, "so, i don't think i know your name...." so i told him, and asked his (even though i aleady knew) and was like, 'cool'. And then we just talked and joked about where we were going. When we got there, I left and was like, 'see you' etc.
But then he didn't speak to me for the rest of the night, although i noticed him looking at me once, but only once.
Then on the last day I was just asking for peoples myspaces and he was like, "oh, you got myspace? good choice!"
So i added him on myspace and msn, he's pretty hard to speak to on msn, like he doesn't speak much. But when he does he can be really flirty. And he leaves me picture comments saying, 'i would ;]' or 'you're really cute' and stuff.
Oh and if it helps i've been speaking to one of his friends who was also at this organisation a lot, and we met up, but the guy i like wasn't there.
But, what i want to know is, he seems like a bit of a manwhore yknow? how do i stand out from the other girls he flirts with and get him to actually really like me?
And how can I flirt more and get him to like me when most of our contact is over the internet?
How do I go about suggesting we meet up when we don't actually speak that much?
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My advice is to not try too hard. The reason is you can't make a boy like you. You can't make a man like you. They know what they want and there's no amount of flirting or dressing or sexual favours that can change their minds for more than a couple minutes.
If he likes you, he likes you. It's cliche, but you have to be who you are and see if he responds to it. If he doesn't then he's not a prospect for you.
Also, be wary of males who seem to get around a lot. They have a tenancy to cheat and make their girlfriends feel insecure (insecure enough to feel like they have to compete with other girls).
I'd hold out for a guy who was pursuing you actively so you know where you stand. When you have to chase the guy, you're always left wondering how he feels, what's going on, if he actually likes you, etc. And that sucks.
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