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so ive liked this guy for about 2 months, and up until now hes liked me back. well we get into fights a lot, but i always end up apoligizing bc i know he wont bc hes so goddamn stubborn lol. hes a year younger than me. im a freshman and hes in 8th grade so its hard to see him a lot. he started liking me fist btw. well he used to say ily when he said goodbye, and be like please dont go, and text me 24/7 and try really hard to see me, but the last few days hes been different. like i have to text him first and he doesnt text back a lot. Also, he hasnt said ily in forever, and when i went to his football game, when he was about to leave, i was going to give him a peck, and he turned and gave me his cheek? i dont understand. like he said he really liked me adn even loved me but idkk. does he not like me anymore? adn eh told me the only reason he hasnt asked me out yet is because were in different schools and if we see each other more hes going to ask me out. what do i do? thanks
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Maybe you should just talk to him about it. confront him about it. If you really like him, then tell him. Try to get him to explain why. Tell him it's bothering you that he doesn't text you much anymore.
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It sounds like he is losing interest in the relationship, and when that happens there's nothing you can do or say to change his mind.
My advice is this: stop calling and texting him completely. Either he'll come back in full force OR he'll ignore you back.
If he ignores you back then it's over and you should move on. If he still cares then you not calling all the time will upset him and he'll resume.
Either way you win. Your boyfriend either becomes attentive again or you don't have to waste any more of your time on someone who doesn't care.
And this is how you should handle boys who don't pay attention to you in general. Don't give a guy any more than he's giving you. If they want your attention, they're going to have to try and make the effort.
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