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ex games.
Me and my ex when we were together were just so perfect together we both just tottallyyy fell in love with eachother. At the end of our relationship we just started fighting alot because I wasnt sure what I wanted. All my friends were turning 18 and going out and I just wanted to do that to, soo I started fighting with him over stuff that I used to be okay with, like not going out with out him and so on. So we had a huge blow out and broke up. We both said some pretty unforgivable stuff to eachother. I tried to get him back but he just said he wasnt meant for a girlfriend. He drinks so much now and goes out so much just is totally lost. About 2 months ago I met someone else and we started dating. My ex will call dave, dave started coming back to me wanting to hang out texting me all the time, I didnt wanna miss out on a good thing with the new guy so I told "dave" I couldnt talk to him anymore. Well being in the relationship with the new guy I found myself doing nothing but thinking about "dave". So we broke up and Dave just acts as though he wants nothing to do with me. I cant stop thinking about him still. I know he wants to be back with me but me and him are just soo stubborn its like we compete on who doesnt care the most. and I hate it. I feel like its a continuous game that I dont know what to do or how to stop. Please give me some advice on either how to get over this bullcrap, or get my boy back...
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Ex-boyfriends have a special radar that lets them know when their ex-girlfriend is happy with another man. They then pursue that ex-girlfriend to try and mess things up for her.
Why? It's because males are territorial and even if they don't want a woman anymore, they don't want anyone else to have her either.
He messed up your new relationship all just to make himself feel better about you moving on. Don't let that happen again. You have every right to move on and date new men and be happy, so don't let Dave confuse you. I'd block his phone number, remove anything from my home that is directly related to him, and I would spend lots of time with friends and doing things you love. That will make you happier and get your mind of your ex.
Also, very few people marry their boyfriend or girlfriend from their teenage years, so take heart that you're not leaving behind the great love of your life. You'll change so much in the next five years that you'll start wondering what you ever saw in Dave.
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That's tough, Well why don't you just talk to him. It seems like you really love him. So tell him. Tell him how you feel. Maybe he's waiting for you to tell him. Maybe he's just scared. It's weird to think, but guys get scared of relationships just as much as we do. He probably really loves you, you should just tell him how you feel. If it works out great. If not, then at least you gave it a chance, and told him the truth. I hope that helps a little.
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