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Friends with Ex
17/f. I dated a guy for about a month. He and I liked each other and we clicked, but we never get to see each other except on the weekends. So we've both been thinking that it wouldn't work out because of that, and very recently we decided to not date anymore because of it. We have a whole lot in common, but we just haven't been able to really get to know each other at all. I'm not mad at him about it because I agree with his reasoning. However, we both decided that we want to still be friends because we really do get along well... I'm just not sure how to do that. I'm frustrated at the situation because we only have like one mutual friend. So it's not like I can keep calling him or texting him all the time. I know it will take time, but I'm not sure how to be friends with him. Help?
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If I were you... I'd just explain that I might need some time and space to sort through my feelings before resuming the friendship. If he is a good friend, he'll understand and respect you're request.
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It usually is difficult to remain friends with your ex if you can't get passed your feelings for him. The two of you ended on mutual terms, so there is no reason why you can't be friends though. You are going to have to maintain your self control and just be honest with him about your feelings. Who knows, maybe in 6 months or even a year the two of you could work things out or end up spending more time together. If you think the two of you will date other people, set boundaries so that you are not having uncomfortable conversations about girls he likes. It's really a tricky thing, but if you are serious about being friends with him give it a try and make an effort not to be jealous. It is possible that he could be a better friend than a boyfriend to you. If you discover that it really is over, you're gonna have to move on.
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