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subtle hints
Posted Saturday November 15 2008, 12:46 am
so i am a sophomore girl and there is a jr guy that i have been talking to a little bit. We dont kbow each other too well but i am pretty sure i like him. I dont think he considers me as any more than a friend.. or even a really good friend. So how should i like flirt minimally without making him think im desparate... or a creep??
THANKS
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do i have a point, or am I just extremely over reacting?
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 11:06 pm
17/f in a relationship of 1 year...
yes... not too long but i love this kid to death...
and i want to support him in anything he pursues as a career... but he wants to be, a cop. something i'm kind of against... i really dont know why. it's a great job, but *sigh* that whole risking your life thing isnt really working for me... me and my boyfriend have ARGUMENTS over this... i just dont know what to do? Back off? keep telling him to not do it? ='/ ... it's his life, but GAHHH i'm just so confused...
he feels the same on me joining the marine corps, which is why i decided not too... also b/c of my parents... someone please shed some light on this for me?
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HELP!
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 9:13 pm
There is this guy at school that I sort of like. I'm not sure whether I really like him or not. I hope you guys can help me know if I truly like him.
Thanks, with love
~!MysteriousGirl!~
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idk ..help.=]
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 8:33 pm
ive know this guy since the 6th grade i am now a junior in hs. so its been a while. I used to like him back then and he knew it i guess he just didnt like me so w.e i moved on. We lasted like 3 yrs without talking simple because we didnt go to the same school anymore and i never see him around. He goes to the same school as my besfriend and he asked her to say hi to me. Well weve been talkin and w.e but idk if he has feelings for me or if hes just trying to mess wit my head im kind of falling all over. =/ i dont want to get my hopes up but i mean i would like him as a friend what should i do?..
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It's a flux of emotions.
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 7:45 pm
I'm really interested in my friend who we'll call J. I've know him for a couple months now, but we only talk in school. He seems interested in me as well. Another friend of mine, who we'll call B, told me not long ago she's starting to like him. She got him to join drama with us, and at drama she hangs all over him. I'm not like that, it's just not me.
He's very smart, and no offense to her, but she's not the brightest bulb. It's a rollercoaster of emotions going from confidence to discouragement. I need some help to say the least.
Help me?
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like our love fades in and out
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 6:48 pm
okay me and my boyfriend made 5months this monday, and its been pretty qood, like monday he and i was happy that it's been 5months and at the end of the day at school monday he was like "5months baby" and all over me, but our relationship is kinda weird, like i love him and he loves me, but there's days where our love is strong and there's days our love isn't strong and i kinda hate it, because it hurts mee alot, like i dont know what to do, i try to be all over him, but no pushy thouqh, but its whatever too him. And when we have days like these i hate it, and it really hurts me, can you hellp please because i have no idea what to do.
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Im leading him on and dont know how to tell him
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 4:43 pm
Okay so pretty much me and my ex broke up 4 months ago but this is the only guy I have ever considered being in love with and Im not one to take that kinda stuff lightly you know? I seriously love this kid and I know that will never change even when I move on. Well after the break up I had to stop talking to him because it hurt to be around him. So after a while me and another one of my ex's started talking again and now we make-out when we hang out. The thing is I do not have those kinda feelings for him anymore and I feel horrible because I know im leading him on. I seriously feel empty of any feelings towards people right now. Especially him. SO how can I tell him that I cant talk to him anymore because I can't handle it right now. It se...
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i have known him all my life
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 2:00 pm
im an 18 yr old girl and there is this guy i have known for all my life told me that he has feelings for me.. that he loves me and would marry me any second all i have to do is say yes. but the thing is he has a gf that he has been with a lil over a year but he says he is tired of her and wants to break it off but cant b.c he dont want to disappoint her family.. i have loved him for a longgg time and i want to be with him for the rest of my life but i dont know whether to believe him or not. please help me!!
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My new boyfriend
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 9:49 am
ok, i broke up in july and my new bf broke up with his ex 3 weeks back. we just started out. everything's great. we hang out together alot. i have started to know his friends. we haven't made out yet. the problem : whenever we are on the phone, i just dont know what to talk about. i juat stay quiet!! like today we were talking and it was him who was blabbering and then he, like, stops and tells me..."why are you so quiet" ughhh...maybe i haven't opoened up to him. or maybe its becaus i dont want this one to turn out like my previous one...idk...i feel like a complete idiot. any ideas? also he is 2 years younger than me. and he is a sweetheart.
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the passion in our relationship is disappearing
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 6:28 am
I'm in a serious relationship but there's a problem. I love my boyfriend (I'm female...sorry :P) but I'm not physically attracted to him anymore. Like I think he's hot (because really, he is!:P) but when he tries to kiss me or hug me I just roll my eyes - I just don't want to do it back to him.
I used to love hugging and kissing him but now there's just something in me thats died. I only have two (pretty lame) theories: 1. I've been finding studying and work stressful (I just started a new job) and I thought that may have something to do with it and 2. I started taking the pill about 4 or 5 months ago and I've heard that can effect that sexual drive - or what ever it's called.
Anywho, my question is does anyone...
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no sex drive
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 3:51 am
25f. for the last two months or so I have had absolutely no sex drive. It is driving my boyfriend crazy. I don't know what the deal is...I never think about it and almost never want it and when I do have sex I just want it to be over. I do not take birth control, I eat healthy, my boyfriend is attractive, and I have not changed my diet. Does anyone know maybe why I am lacking in this department or how to jump start it again? Thanks
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Boys...
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 1:44 am
14/f
I've liked this guy for awhile. I think he found out I liked him, I don't know for sure but I'm pretty sure he did. Ok well the thing is he still does talk to me. He use to talk to me a lot and he still does but its different now. He acts nicer than he did before but he still teases me. I don't think he likes me though. Its just...I don't know what to do. Whenever I see him, he is talking to other girls and it bugs me. I don't think I'm jealous or anything just mad that he doesn't ever talk to me only every once in awhile. I know he doesn't hate me, which is good but idk. I'm more of a quiet girl so don't expect me to go out of my way to talk to him. I am pretty loud when I'm with my friends and in class talking to them ...
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Am I wrong not to hate him??
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 1:05 am
Ok so here it is... So I was dating this guys named Kenny right and like he was amazing to me and everything and like I loved to be around him and just spend time with him. (ok to fill you in He has a kid a little baby girl with another girl) ok so anyway like the saturday before we were talking and things got serious and he asked me some weird questions like is it wrong to break up with someone for no reason and stuff like that then I started to freak out thinking he was going to break up with me because I come up with this whole scenario that is Ex wanted to get back together with him and it just so happened to be true and then he told me all this stuff that he loved here still because she was his first love but he will always hate her fo...
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Relationship Problems
Posted Friday November 14 2008, 12:44 am
I am a 17 year old female, out of high school, young mother working at walmart. He is a 19 year old " cowboy type " works at his dads trailor parks all the time. I have strech marks from being pregnant unforantly. We were going to have sex with we have many times before and he wanted me to take my shirt off and i wasn't comfortable with that not yet anyways. well we just sat there and didnt talk he fell asleep. I woke him up and told him to get dressed and i took him home. he left his wallet in my car ( the only reason he called me that night) i gave him the wallet the next day after seeing 3 pictures of girls in his wallet. Once he told me about one picture and told me it was a old friend of his. that day we talked maybe once af...
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boy problems
Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 10:52 pm
long story short.. i met this guy about two weeks ago. he was really sweet and all and we had sex the first time we met. well i thought he was using me so he said no, cause he wouldnt pick me up from school, give me rides to work, hang out with me and visit me at work.. so i believed him and he acutally did like me. he was always cute to me and just last friday we had sex again and he was a jerk afterwards so i was being a bitch. so hes like want me to bring you home and im like idont care your the one driving and hes like well if your acting like that.. so he drove me home and we usually give each other a kiss before i step out and he looked at me and i just left without giving him a kiss.. so after that he hasnt really talked to me. and n...
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manwhore
Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 10:08 pm
I like this guy and i know hes kind of a manwhore. He openly admits to loving sex and people say that is pretty much what he wants from a girl. Do you think there is any hope to him not being so manwhorish if he maybe finds the right one? He said he wants a girlfriend but the right girl. I just dont know whether I would want to be another one of his casual hook-ups because ive never dated/hooked up with a guy so should i give him a chance? Are there some good/bad signs i should look for?
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umm awkward
Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 10:04 pm
i went to my brothers college this weekend and im 16 and he is a sophomore. and we all got so drunk and i ended up hooking up with my brothers roommate. he kept putting his hand on my leg and was trying to go in my pants. he wanted to do more but i freaked out just because i wasnt thinking clearly. then i quickly pulled away bc my brother walked in (but he didnt notice anything) and then the next day we didnt speak one word and i just left? i dont get it. like what should i do when i see him for thanksgiving?
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tell them their your first
Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 10:03 pm
how do you tell someone that theyre your first kiss and first boyfriend ? it juss seems awkward. should you tell them before you kiss them that you havnt kissed anyone or afterwards?
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he knows he can have me..
Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 9:29 pm
18 years old, female :)
well i've liked this guy for the LONGEST time. like three and a half years. but we're also best friends. so me and him always denied liking each other. and i know he is attracted to me but didn't do anything about it and same for me. but recently i've let him know i like him. i havent told him exactly "i like you" but we've been messing around (nothing really sexual) and flirting non stop when i see him, i'll sit in his lap and he will hold me. and well now i feel like i made a mistake. because he will text me like two days straight after i hang out with him (i usually only see him sometimes on the weekends) and then he won't text me all week, even sometimes he will be like i'll text you tomorrow and...
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Getting over someone you love quickly.
Posted Thursday November 13 2008, 8:48 pm
I am truly and madly in love with one of my best friends. He knows of my feelings and he is very comfortable with that. Problem is, he has a girlfriend of 5 years, and they are speaking of marriage now. I know I really really really need to get over him now. I've recently told him that I should cut ties with him, at least for now, to help with the healing process. I really need any advice for getting over the one you love. Thank you.
Also... I really want to hug him or give him a kiss before he leaves at the end of this year. He's graduating and leaving for... well I really don't know where. But I'll still be here. I know his girlfriend wouldn't mind if I gave him a quick kiss or a hug, because she knows how I love him and sh...
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