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Im leading him on and dont know how to tell him
Okay so pretty much me and my ex broke up 4 months ago but this is the only guy I have ever considered being in love with and Im not one to take that kinda stuff lightly you know? I seriously love this kid and I know that will never change even when I move on. Well after the break up I had to stop talking to him because it hurt to be around him. So after a while me and another one of my ex's started talking again and now we make-out when we hang out. The thing is I do not have those kinda feelings for him anymore and I feel horrible because I know im leading him on. I seriously feel empty of any feelings towards people right now. Especially him. SO how can I tell him that I cant talk to him anymore because I can't handle it right now. It seriously kills me that I have done this plus im still no were near being over my most recent ex. I feel horrible but I know i need to end this before it gets any worse.... Help anyone?
17/f
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i think that you should just tell him that you want him to be a best friend to you. Like you want him to be there as a best "friend/buddy", not in that intimate way because you feel like you are gonna lose his friendship. Tell him what you are feeling, but in a nice way so that ur friendship isn't ruined. If you do it, then you won't feel as bad, and its okay you know, to flirt a little bit, but not too much. because that is part of what i think will help you get over your ex, if you are really trying to get over him. i hope this helped. gdluck.
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You need to tell him. You may have already been leading him on, but the longer you go without saying anything the harder things will be and the more damage will be caused.
Next time you see him, tell him exactly how you feel. Will this anger and hurt him, honestly yeah it might, but the truth does hurt and honesty is the best policy. I think you should sit him down and say to him about how you are not over your ex, and still love him (the recent ex). Make sure he knows,and also build him up, tell him what a great guy he is so you don't crush his self esteem. Let him know that none of it is his fault and leave it at that. You may lose his friendship right now, just know that before anything else happens, to just be honest with yourself and him, b/c if you aren't, things will come crashing down around you. Believe me.
Good luck with everything, and it is never too late to make it right.
All the best, :)
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