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crazyness, want him to want you.
ughhh! i am so angry! dont you just hate it when people you want to like you, don't. i use to be friends with this guy and now, im nothing to him.
how would you deal?
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I'd probably talk shit about him to all my girl friends but then cry into my pillow at night over his absence from my life. Then I'd call my friends and we'd paint each others nails and talk about tampons and curse God for creating boys.
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There's this silly little book called "He's Just Not That Into You." Buy it. Read it. Live it.
When you hear the title, it sounds condescending, but it's the most enlightening book you will ever read. In a nutshell, it basically tells you that if a guy doesn't like you the way you like him, he's really really stupid because you are GREAT, and you should move on to something better.
Every girl out there has something to offer, and he's really missing out. So go out there and find someone else. The best revenge on a guy is making him see you truly and completely happy with someone else.
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When you read this answer, you're probably going to think that i'm insane for even saying this, but I can almost guarentee that this will work. When dealing with love, the majority of people want a partner that isn't TOO clingy or needy. If you text or call him all the time and he does not text or call back, he probably feels that you are being to dependent on him. If you try to avoid texting or calling him for one day, theres a 90% chance he'll grab his phone expecting a message from you, and when he doesn't see that message he'll think that may be prety strange. Wait until he texts you, don't bombard him with texts yourself. Although it may not seem like it, most people generally like a partner that they have to "work for." If you just give it all away, it may seem a little boring for him. Make it a challenge so you become the one with the upper hand and not him. I know it sounds absolutley crazy, but it works almost all of the time! Trust me as a guy, when a girl that I like discontinues sending me texts all the time.. it drives me nuts! It really makes me want to call her and say I miss her. Well I really wish you the best of luck on this one, hopefully he gives you the attention you deserve! Dave
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wow that can make a person pretty angry when that happens. You know, wut you can do is just try to reach out to him. you could tell him how you feel, but that might be a little bit hard. and then like, go up to him or when you pass him by be like..."hey stranger, how come you don't talk to me anymore? (and do it in a playful nice way)." and see what he says...and then maybe you can ask him be like....what happend to us, we used to be so close, now its as if we never knew each other.....then be like we should talk more often and catch...like we honestly got to catch up...don't you think? and then see what he says and how he acts and if he doesn't seem to want to be friends anymore, just forget about him because he obviously isn't trying to make ur friendship work. and it will be hard, but then you will have to somehow just let go of him and move on.
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