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i have known him all my life
im an 18 yr old girl and there is this guy i have known for all my life told me that he has feelings for me.. that he loves me and would marry me any second all i have to do is say yes. but the thing is he has a gf that he has been with a lil over a year but he says he is tired of her and wants to break it off but cant b.c he dont want to disappoint her family.. i have loved him for a longgg time and i want to be with him for the rest of my life but i dont know whether to believe him or not. please help me!!
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wow, i'm going through the same thing right now. i've liked this guy for years but he's had a girlfriend of two years and he said that he would do anything for me, and i was like why do you stay with your girlfriend then? and you know what he told me? he said because he is close with her family and he would feel bad. just like that guy said to you. i honestly was crushed i was just like okay well then you're never going to break up with her so have fun with her for the rest of your life and he was like that won't ever happen. i still love him, always will no matter what people tell me. everyone says i can do better than him and maybe i can, but i don't want to. it's so hard, i know and honestly nobody understands me and they think i'm stupid for putting myself through this but he is more than worth it. i've waited so long for him, why give up now? you never know what may happen. i wish i could tell you what the outcome will be, and i wish i knew what it was for me too but you have to take chances because you dont want to ever wonder "what if.." im sorry i couldn't really tell you exactly what to do, i could if i knew! but just know i'm going through the same thing and i know where your coming from so if you ever need anything let me know. i hope things work out for you ♥ LU
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Yes stay with him.
I may only be 16 years old but I have a guy friend who I am madly in love with and he says the sweetest things to me and I hope he asks me to marry him since we spend pretty much every second together. Wait until things get better with him and his girlfriend so he is able to break up with her.
Good luck !
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A little over a year ago he was probably
telling her the same exact thing. Hes
trying to make you fall for it so he can
keep her and have you on the side.
Since you have asked many similar questions,
I think you know in your heart what you need
to do. I know its very hard to give up, but
you need to just totally stop communicating
with this guy until you're well over him.
Look for someone else who has time for only
you. Who knows, give him the cold shoulder
and he may break up with her. I really
doubt it though. More than likely you'll
see him putting the moves on another girl
while still dating the poor girl he is
dating now.
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In cases like these, it's best to believe your eyes.
Your eyes can clearly see that he is still with her. It doesn't matter what his reasons are, it could be about her family, it could be a secret blood pact, it could be an alien conspiracy, it could be that she put outs. It doesn't matter. He is with her, not you.
Believe what you can see. He isn't with you now, and he wasn't yesterday. There is no rational reason to think tommorrow will change the situation.
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