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Boyfriend Leaving..
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 9:26 pm
I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now, and I love him so much but hes going to be leaving in a few months for a job in another country for a year. He says that he wants to keep the relationship going and still be together when he comes back, but I don't know if thats going to be to hard to do. I've been really upset about it and it seems like every little thing reminds me about it..but it almost dosen't seem like it even bothers him, because hes been acting completely normal.. does anybody have any advice about how to deal with all this? ..btw.. this is my first real relationship, if that makes a difference at all. Thanks in advance for any advice
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bf probs =(
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 9:15 pm
your really good at advice.and I really appreciated your help about my boyfriend. so I decided id ask you another question cause there's still a bit frusturatng me. like his neighbor I guess suposedly likes him.and he ditches me at lunch to walk to the store to eat with her.and he waits for her after school so they can walk home.what do I do? cause this of course is when my jealousy problem comes in.and we always get in fights because ill refer to her as his "girlfriend"and he gets mad cause im his girlfriend not her.and she startd coming to school like on monday. I know she isn't new cause I've seen her before like in middle school or something.well she's in my 1st and 4th period and she's always staring at me. what do I do about...
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i am a senior in hs and i've never hooked up with a guy or had a boyfriend
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 8:59 pm
i don't know why but i don't really have any guy friends. i'm 17 (female) and guys barely talk to me. when they do i'm not really shy or anything but the guys i hang around just never have anything to talk about so our conversations are brief. i dont really have a crush on anyone but i do find some guys at my school attractive/i would hook up with them but i don't know how that would ever happen. i dont feel like any guy would ever want to hook up with me... but i don't know why. i'm pretty "normal," not ugly or anything, in shape, good sense of humor, and i have a pretty wide circle of friends. i'm nice to everyone and i don't talk badly of anyone... im not clingy to guys either. i really need help, im woried about even getting a prom date!
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Boyfriend trouble.
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 8:39 pm
Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been having trouble lately. We broke it off for a bit because we thought it would be best. But now we're talking again. You see, he wasn't the best boyfriend in the world. I mean, he's a great guy...he's loyal and truthful and he really does love me (and I also love him)...but he never did that stuff boyfriends do, all the little things. All the sweet little gestures that let you know he cares. Is that asking for too much? He told me he's gonna try to do some of that, but he can't change his whole personality. Should I stay with him and see if it works?
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I really need help![Very long] especially a guy advice.. what would you do?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 8:22 pm
Hi, I have a huge problem.. well I'm in the worst position ever! my boyfriend well [ex].. is going to iraq on may.. and I'm moving to PA on june. We had to break up because of the situation were in.. We recently started going out and we felt so close together, like its amazing.. and for once in my life, my life is actually settled I know what college I want to go to is culinary [I want to become a chef =)] I have a great boyfriend.. which he is very sweet and respectful. & I've I had my bad luck in relationships. but to get straight to the point. the reason why we broke up is because we don't want to get hurt in the long run. because we got so attached & close to each other.
he calls me baby & sweetheart everyday.. but I...
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Is it possible for guys to get an erection while...
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 6:12 pm
Okay...is it possible for guys to get an erection while they're...being sexual with a girl they have no attraction to? Like if they were hugging, the guy wouldn't...would he?
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this guy
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 4:41 pm
16/f
So, this guy wrote me a note today and told me he liked me and he wanted to get to know me, etc. He said he was nervous at first to talk to me but he asked for my number and i gave it to him and he keeps calling but i am scared to answer it because i only met him today...and i'm not sure if i ike him like that. He is really nice and sweet already and we talked a lot at school but i get really nervous whenever i talk to guys on the phone for the first time. I only met him today, so is it mean not to answer the phone and wait until i know him a little better. I would be more comfortable then but i don't want to tell him that so what do i do? thanks!
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he ses hi to every girl
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 3:59 pm
ok I undrstand he has a lot of friends that are girls. I have a lot of guys as friends. but when we walk down the halls he's saying hi and stuff to every girl!! I don't walk and say stuff to all my guy friends. I stay just to him. my question. what does this mean?? how do I stop it or something? and im 16 he's 17
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should i?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 3:58 pm
hey thanks for reading :)
ive been meeting up with this lad for over 5mouths now and i realy like him , im actualyy in love with him because we met up like 4 times a week , but the only problem is a part of me thinks hes just using me for sex but if he was using me wouldnt he of moved on by now? we always fall out i dont no why its mosty me because i need him and i cant see why he wont get with me we act like a couple well i think we do, he never tells actually told me if he likes me or not not even to his or my mates he just sayin he hates realatships , like i said its 5mouths and i want to move on coz i dont think he will ever get with me but a apart of me thinks he will he just need time to think i mean we txt eachother ...
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Flirting with guys
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 3:00 pm
Can anyone give me like a list of ways to flirt with guys..some without being completely obvious. And if guys actually think its cute and like it..cause i know some ways really annoy them.
Thanks!
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Invitation Ignored
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 1:05 pm
16/f
Two weeks ago I invited 7 camp friends for a dinner party which I had on Friday. One of these people is a guy I like who worked in the same group as me and my best friend this past summer at camp (he sort of knew I like him, [long story] and I'm not sure if he still thinks I like him but he might, & I'm pretty sure he didn't like me back but everything worked out cause we talked about it and we'e still friends even though it was sort of awkward for a couple days). I sent an email invitation to all the people I was inviting in the same message on Facebook so I wouldn't have to send a bunch of different emails. People were sending messages back & forth within the message so I know he saw this invitation. Everybody answered...
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question to guys "dating" girls?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 5:45 am
k so i have this reaaalllyyy good friend that used to have a gf and i had a bf so we didn't hang out that much then i broke up with my bf and started hanging out with him A LOT like almost 4 5 times per week. oh yea his gf lived in another town so they never see each toher ..anyway we became really close friends adn then she broke up with him so we started going out even more frecuently...one day we finally started kissing...then hooked up and we've been like that since almost 2 months ago and he broke up with her prolly 3 ago ...anyway ..so i once told him i didn't want us to make out anymore or go further because i really really liked him, ( meaning like if he is not looking for a relationship with me dont make out with me anymroe caus...
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New Boyfriend: Infatuation?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 2:45 am
OK well I'm 16/f and I have a new boyfriend who I really like and both of us are really happy to be together. The problem is that we don't go to the same school so that really limits the frequency of us being able to see eachother. I wish I could see him more, but the fact is that I can't because there are certain things, like going to his house alone, that my parents are probably not exactly okay with. I haven't told them that we are dating, because I don't know how they will react. I'm not sure if that would make them more reluctant to letting us see eachother because they'll think something will happen between us, or if it will give me more freedom to date him. My parents are reasonable but still strict. The thing is that my boyfriend is...
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love to last forever??
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 1:20 am
Hi I am 16.f. My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. He is my first true love, and everyone says 'youll never forget your first love' and everything, like our relationship will never last. But what if I TRULY think he is the only one I could ever be with. I know I am young, and of course I wouldn't get married now, and I have time to think about it but on one hand I can't imagine a future with anyone else, but on the other hand EVERYONE seems to think that just because I have never loved anyone else means I wont last long with him?? Is it possible that I just happened to find the perfect guy right off the bat? Has anyone had an experience like mine??
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wondering?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 12:03 am
ok so my bf and I have been togethr since xmas eve. well he doesn't really treat me like a gf. like it seems like were just friends. we've only held hands like once.and he hugs me hello and goodbye. we haven't had our 1st kiss yet. (but im not rushing that). I tried talking to him about treating me like a girlfriend.and it didn't really do anything.he's always talking to other girls and it makes me jealous. so yes I also have a jealousy problem.and im pretty sure the last 2 days he went to lunch with this girl. that's his friend. but it makes me mad cause he nos it makes me mad! and he started actng really immature like goofy aftr we started going out.my mom said its probably cause he doesn't know how 2 act. well my question is what can I d...
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Is it ok to want a break every once in a while?
Posted Wednesday January 7 2009, 12:02 am
Well, I'm 14/f and I just started going out with this AMAZING guy a couple days before Christmas. So we've only been going out for about 2 weeks or so. Already, I feel this strange connection to him that I haven't felt towards any other guy. I like him a lot...enough to call it love. So I love him, but I'm not IN love with him. Well it's weird, because no matter how much I want to see him again and just hear his voice, every once in a while I just find myself not answering his call or text just because. I mean, this doesn't happen all the time, but every now and then I'll just look at the caller Id and just not pick it up :/ Is this normal? I mean, I love him to death, but sometimes I just feel like some down time... does anyone else feel like this? Thanks!
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confused. lol
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 11:16 pm
ok so the other morning I was texting my boyfriend. this was our convo.
me:hey
him:hey
me:can I ask a question.nd u gota be honest
him:ya.
me:are you going to or thought about breaking up with me?
him:no. y?
me:im just askng cuz I don't want you to.and it always seems like im making you mad and I just want to make you happy like you make me.
him: ..I thnk that's just called a lil love.
my question.. wat dus he mean by that last line? my friend sed maybe its his way of sayng he loves me. bt it kinda dusnt sound lke it. but I don't know. please help. thankyou in advance
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Should I be worried?
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 10:42 pm
Hey,okay this might sound really pathetic, but recently I was talking to this guy who is friends with a guy I kissed randomly at a night club before.
The guy i was talking to told me what the guy i kissed said about it he said "it was shit"
so now im really worried that i could be a bad kisser..! I havnt had anyone say anything before as far as i know i dont use too much tounge or bite or do a washing machine on it and i put alot into it. what else could i be doing wrong?
should i be worried? or could it be just the guy saying this in spite because now were not really friends. it has me feeling kinda self concious! and the next time i kiss someone it will be at the back of my mind. anyone any advice?!
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Telling my parents
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 9:27 pm
Ok here it goes...I have a boyfriend but I'm not supposed to have one but I really like him and it feels like love....he says it too...it's been about 3 months since we were girlfriend and boyfriend. He says that i'm the one for him and he says it so serious. I want to be with him for the rest of my life too. There's only one problem right now,,,actually there is several.
We barely see eachother and we don't go to the same school either because he's homeschooled. Anyways he is also 16 and i am just 13 and I need to know a way to tell my parents about this because eventually they're going to find out. My boyfriend and I want to tell them, but we're also scared of what my parents would say because i'm not allowed to date and because ...
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I don't know if he feels the same
Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 7:19 pm
I started a new school this year and i went in now expecting to date anyone or even feel like i would try to pursue anyone. I don't date very much and although that sucks it takes a lot for me to like someone. I've had my eye on this kid all year he's extremely cute and he likes the same music as i do and seemed nice but i just admired from a far i guess you would say. I knew nothing would ever happen between us but then he started sitting at my lunch table. He's extremely nice and he talks to me i feel comfortable infront of him. I would really like to talk to him more but i dont know if he is even slightly intrested in me or how to talk to him and what about. I'm very afraid to flirt or to make a move because i have low self esteem I just...
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