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So, this guy wrote me a note today and told me he liked me and he wanted to get to know me, etc. He said he was nervous at first to talk to me but he asked for my number and i gave it to him and he keeps calling but i am scared to answer it because i only met him today...and i'm not sure if i ike him like that. He is really nice and sweet already and we talked a lot at school but i get really nervous whenever i talk to guys on the phone for the first time. I only met him today, so is it mean not to answer the phone and wait until i know him a little better. I would be more comfortable then but i don't want to tell him that so what do i do? thanks!
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If you're nervous answering the phone, trust me, you have no idea how much brick shitting he is doing trying to call you. He is psyching himself up every time, he probably has rehearsed his first few sentences in the mirror just to make sure he sounds confident... and he probably has notes scribbled on subjects just in case the conversation dies down.
How will you get to know him better if you dont answer the phone? Do it, it will take a lot less pressure of you and him cause you won't have to see each other when you talk. Just talk about normal stuff friends talk about, the heavy subjects wont come till later, and by then you will know if you want to pursue it.
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Well, it does sound like you are well on your way to finding a sweet boyfriend, or a clingy one. I have to say that while his intentions do seem sweet and honorable this could be an indication of the many, many phone calls you'll get later when you're actually dating.
It all just depends on what you look for most in a guy. I say that you tell this guy the next time you see him that you'd like to talk to him and get to know him better, but you also want to take it slow. Maybe if he knows you don't want to rush until you find out how you feel about him, then he'll back off a little bit so you can think.
Good luck!! :)
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just answer the phone. if its awkward i doubt he'll notice because he's probably worrying too. if you dont answer he's gonna think you hate him or something, or ask you why you didn't pick up in school, and that'll just be awkward cause you'll have to lie. if you decide you don't like him, tell him... but don't shut out an oppourtunity cause youre nervous
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