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Is it ok to want a break every once in a while?
Well, I'm 14/f and I just started going out with this AMAZING guy a couple days before Christmas. So we've only been going out for about 2 weeks or so. Already, I feel this strange connection to him that I haven't felt towards any other guy. I like him a lot...enough to call it love. So I love him, but I'm not IN love with him. Well it's weird, because no matter how much I want to see him again and just hear his voice, every once in a while I just find myself not answering his call or text just because. I mean, this doesn't happen all the time, but every now and then I'll just look at the caller Id and just not pick it up :/ Is this normal? I mean, I love him to death, but sometimes I just feel like some down time... does anyone else feel like this? Thanks!
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Good for you! Believe it, or not, the fact that you are not sitting around waiting for him to call is going to make him want to be with you all the more. So many girls get into this mindset that they need to talk to their boyfriends all of the time, and they end up pushing him away. He is going to like the fact that you have your own life.
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Yes it is fine. You have your own life too besides him. I do the same thing.
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dottie4
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Hey hun,
There's nothing wrong with that, there are different kinds of people out there, some want to be with there partner 24/7, some want to live with them but want to spend time out with friends more than their partners etc... you can see where iam coming from!
People are all different, if he's not complaining about the fact that you weren't picking up his calls or his not making a big fuss about it and you feel the way that you do, then there shouldn't be a problem there at all. It just basically shows that you guys are compatiable.
You are still finding yourself and you need that down time to have for yourself, it's not only healthy once in a while but also it's a time where you can revolve your life around you.
But just make sure that you don't cut him off from you all the time, then there might be problems.. he might feel insecure or that you don't really want to be around him.
When you do see him and talk to him, just let him know that he's special and even when you don't speak with him, you still think of him.
If he's not a stubborn person, then he'll understand.
i get the feeling on being on my own or with friends sometime too.. it's just a natural feeling to being human!
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Nobody else does. Stop being crazy.
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