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I don't know if he feels the same


Question Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 7:19 pm

I started a new school this year and i went in now expecting to date anyone or even feel like i would try to pursue anyone. I don't date very much and although that sucks it takes a lot for me to like someone. I've had my eye on this kid all year he's extremely cute and he likes the same music as i do and seemed nice but i just admired from a far i guess you would say. I knew nothing would ever happen between us but then he started sitting at my lunch table. He's extremely nice and he talks to me i feel comfortable infront of him. I would really like to talk to him more but i dont know if he is even slightly intrested in me or how to talk to him and what about. I'm very afraid to flirt or to make a move because i have low self esteem I just assume if i like someone that there is no way they would like me i just i want to take a chance. So how do i take a chance what do i say? what do i do?

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varsity_prep_xo answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 9:10 pm:
ahhh i'm always afraid to flirt with people to because i don't want to scare them away. but i think i would actually flirt with this guy, i mean what do you have to lose. you have no bad record, you're new at the school, and who knows it could be the start of something great. if he doesn't flirt back or seems to pull away, go back to being just friends.

flirting techniques:
touch his arm, laugh at his jokes, try making fun of him in a light hearted way. invite him to hang out with you in a group of friends, or if you see him at a party go on and talk to him. if you have classes together start studying together (ask for his number so you can call it with questions, and give him yours). walk him to his classes...

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thatsnothowyoudrawacat answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 2:21 am:
He doesn't feel the same. You haven't even really talked to him. Just say "hi."

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