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he ses hi to every girl
ok I undrstand he has a lot of friends that are girls. I have a lot of guys as friends. but when we walk down the halls he's saying hi and stuff to every girl!! I don't walk and say stuff to all my guy friends. I stay just to him. my question. what does this mean?? how do I stop it or something? and im 16 he's 17
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One good thing is that he does the same thing whether he's with you, or not. Would you rather have everyone saying, "Wow, whenever he's with her he's so stuck up/miserable." What would they think if he only said "hi" when you weren't around? They would start calling you a control freak or something. I don't think you should try to stop him from saying hi, but you could get him to compromise, like if you're in the middle of a conversation, he shouldn't be interrupting what you're saying to talk to someone else. Honestly, it sounds like you have got a great guy, who isn't afraid to be at your side. It is good that he feels comfortable with you, and just think of how jealous all of those girls are. you're the one with him, and all they can do is just say "hi."
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Does he do it to EVERYBODY... or just girls?
I say hi to everyone I know... you never know when someone may have to bail me out of jail one day, I like to keep that friendship line open.
It probably doesn't mean anything, but look at the bright side... you have a lot of girls who know now you are with him when you walk with him and he says hi to them, you should befriend some of them, a few of his girlfriends on YOUR side wouldn't hurt now would it?
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It means he much more polite then you.
It's appropriate to great everyone in a group when you approach them, not just your boyfriend. You might great your boyfriend more warmly and affectionately when you greet him, but to ignore all the other guys standing around him, especially if you know them, well that is kind of rude.
If he greats everyone as he walks down a hallway, that just means he is outgoing AND polite.
If it really bugs you, try engage in him in interesting conversation or better yet say hi to those people as well! But don't try to change who he is. It sounds like he's a pretty cool guy, and he isn't doing anything wrong.
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