|
Viewing QuestionsLove Life
Romance a mess? Welcome to the club! Ask your question here.
awkward guy
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 2:29 am
17/F
While I was dating my boyfriend (beginning of the school year), I became really close with one of my guy friends, who became one of my best friends. It got to the point where, as my relationship with my boyfriend came to an end, I really fell for him, HARD. He left his date at homecoming to dance with me the whole night (they went as friends so she was okay with it) and I continued to have the biggest crush on him.
However, for the past couple of months it has gotten really weird. We can't be alone together without it being awkward, or quiet. We went snowboarding with some friends and he BEGGED me to sit with him on the ski lift, but when I did he wouldn't really talk to me. It's gotten to the point where,...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
Confused
Posted Tuesday February 3 2009, 1:55 am
I am in love with a girl. Before she was having boyfriend. I want to marry her. But my concenn is whether on her first relation they had sex.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
so there's this guy..
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 10:07 pm
I've known him since 7th grade and I've liked him since.. I just don't know how to start a conversation with him. I've always been one of those shy girls who doesn't really tlk that much.
I've always been afraid that if I talk to him he'll just laugh at me and think i'm an idiot.
what should I do?!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
should i ?
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 9:50 pm
15 female.
okay, so i have a huge crush on my best guy friend, and he knows it. me and him are really chill with each other also, were very open with eachother. (hes 17 btw and ive known him since i was 12, and ever since then we've been really tight) sooo heres the thing:
he always tells me how gorgeous and sexy i am,
and he says he likes me but he doesnt want a gf right now, and i was like thats str8 okay i don mind being jus his friend.. but the thing is..
everytime me and him chill we end up kissing or doing something. and hes gone pretty much the whole way except sex, and hes always telling me how he wants to have sex with me and all that stuff and how like awesome it would be and etc.
...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
two different worlds
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 8:38 pm
16/f
well, lets call him 'george'
george is a really cute puerto rican kid thats in one of my classes at school. we dont have assigned seating but we sit next to each other in the same seats everyday. im really into art and i did his backpack for him and he loved it. and now he seems to flirt with me a lot but he has a girl. im really starting to like this kid.
but you see, he's kind of a 'gangster' or whatever the hell you'd call it. people usually classify me as a stoner white girl (you know, beach, surf, weird jewelry, crazy hair) and we're so different. and it seems like when hes with his friends he doesnt want to acknowledge me, but when we're together we always talk and stuff. i dont know what to do!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
i need opinions and thinngs
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 7:47 pm
in 14, 9th grade
ive been with my bf for 4 mnthsss and i gave him a hj
am i like, a whore? am i too young? has it been long enough going out? i mean were pretty serious. idk i think im just paranoid. i mean i know he has no stds and he truely cares about me, and i truely care about him. im like, the only girl hes been with. i only told my best friend and shes like ahh ew never do that again! and i didnt think it was bad. she never did it before so yeah idk if shes just skeeved out by the idea. so yeah, um opinions on the situation?
should i do it again? if i do, how can i do it better? ;]
thankss
ps sorry this is all over the place haaha
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
sad songs\love songs
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 7:42 pm
ok well me and my boyfriend just broke up, we went out for about 5 months.
but anyway, i am still not over him.
and what helps me the most to get over a guys is to listen to music and get my emotions out with the words of the song.
so i was wondering if anyone has any good sad\love songs for me to listen to.
i am into about any kind of music,
so plz give me some ideas!!!!
thanks!
[ Answer Question | View Answers (6) ]
surprise surprise
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 5:49 pm
So me and this guy like eachother I have a feeling he will ask me out on valentines day because he already recently tried but i said i wouldnt just yet. My best friend absolutely doesnt like him for me whatsoever. Shes told me soo many times that she doesnt want us together because hes not right for me and ill get hurt and etc. I listened to what she had to say, considered her advice, but im going to do what i want to do in the end. So lately i have been keeping her out of the loop, i didnt tell her that he told me he likes me or that i told him the same thing. I havnt told her about our conversations or him trying to ask me out or anything happening. One time we talked about if me and him went out and she said shed have to see it to believ...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
speed it up
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 4:29 pm
ok me and this guy have been talking for a bit. We both know we like eachother and we both want to up the relationship so what are ways besides the obvious like a date and the phone and stuff to up the relationship.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Friend or more than friends?
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 2:08 pm
So me and my ex, of three years recently broke up about a month ago i guess he cheated on me too, but whatever he broke up with me. So i have this group of guy friends and a few girls who i always hang out with and there is this boy in our group who ive recently started becoming really really good friends with. We text everyday, we have hung out at parties and outside of parties. We have kissed and held hands and flirted a lot i guess but other than that when we text he acts as if were just friends. Last night he told me he didn't want to get girlfriend close to anyone for a while, which i understand but then that makes us what? And he refuses to open up, to anyone, He keeps absolutely everything inside. His ex hurt him real bad and he wont...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
How to "get" a girl
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 12:36 pm
alright, well my roommate was in a 8 year relationship and it ended horribly he's now scared to talk to girls, but he really needs someone, ex: your in wal-mart you see a girl shopping that catches your eye? what to say to her? how to go about getting to know her?
Like pickup lines, talkable type stuff, places to go, would be great, I've never had any troubles in that field, and i'm not sure how to pick up girls outside of school/ work so i can't help him.\
Thanks.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
How do you deal with a narcissitic boyfriend/girlfriend?
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 11:42 am
What can you do to have a successful relationship with a narcissist? Is it possible for them to change? How do you differentiate between someone who is arrogant and one who is a narcissist? ANY information regarding the subject would be much appreciated. Thank you very much.
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
what can i do
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 11:06 am
me and my boyfriend have beeen together 18 months now.. we were soo amazing at first, but as you know things change as relationships go along. Ive heard things, two times, about him sleeping next to another girl at a party.. which i really dont know if i believe or not, no proof. and when he kissed a girl at a party, he told me right away.. anyways, i chose to take him back.. that was awhile ago. Now, i have caught him lying, when he has been hanging out with his best friend, whoi hate, and he hates me, cause his friend fucks around all the time on my stupid best friend, who stays with him. Anyways, i always fight with him. I have no trust.. but i want to give it all one last try, next time i hear something or told a lie by him, im leaving....
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
Should i try
Posted Monday February 2 2009, 12:54 am
Ok so i recently had sex with a jerk who i don't talk to anymore now i am still sort of interested in my very first love he goes to high school with me but is a freshmen because he failed but he has always been thier for me and did love me at one time i would like to have him back in my life but of course he has new girls and has moved on also so should i send him a myspace message because i don't have his cell anymore and tell him how i feel and see if we could rekindle what we had or should i not and just let it be
[ Answer Question | View Answers (5) ]
how to break up
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 10:17 pm
how do i break up with someone in a nice way? when im scared to say it to their face?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
can we be friends??
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 9:41 pm
ok so me and my boyfriend broke up and im over him in a romantic way but i still wanna be friends he hasnt talked to me sine we broke up but i wanna talk and i wanna be friends
how do i do that without seeming needy and desprate like i want him back because i dnt
[ Answer Question | View Answers (4) ]
Boyfriend Trouble
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 9:14 pm
Sorry, this may be a bit long but I would REALLY appreciate someone's help. Preferrably a girl who has/had the same problem and found an effective way to deal with it, or a guy who is like my boyfriend.
Alright, so my boyfriend, let's call him Larry.
Well, me and larry have been together for about 8 months and he is seriously my first love. I haven't had very many boyfriends and if I have, they never lasted long at ALL. The most was like, 2 and a half months.
Me and Larry started out as best friends and it kinda naturally escalated into something more. So I figured it was fate? But now, I don't know. I love him with ALL of my heart. He's the only boy I ever want to be with, honestly. I'm 17, he's 18.
...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (3) ]
long distance relationship
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 8:53 pm
Hi
I need some romantic idea specially for valentine day for longdistance relationship and also some tips on lingerie
I am 25 and my sweetheart is 31 and he loves football
Any tips or ideas ..pls
thx :)
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
choose between lover and family
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 8:45 pm
Hi everyone
Long story short
I am a 25 female
My mother left us when we was around 13 years old,so i had to take care about my 2 other sister and i practacly raised myself,still managed to get a degree and i have my own home ...''a normal life'',it is so hard for me to get a man since i cant trust no one ,it has to do much with my past ...about more than a year ago i felt in love with this guy and he lives in Africa and he is the best that could have happen to me ever and i hope and dream again .Finally we decided to meet in july and my sisters dont really aprove this cause they are scared that something may happen to me when i go over there to visit him ...this thorne my heart appart,...
[ Answer Question | View Answers (1) ]
wanting THAT boy.
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 6:21 pm
so everytime i get drunk i flirt of course!
i hook up with diffrent guys..
and for instance one time i hooked up with this guy and i called him thomas but thats my other friends name..
i hooked up with thomas two times and i enjoyed it so much because he wouldnt force me to do anything. it was the best.
at a party two nights ago i was flirting with this one guy and he was feeling me up and down then suddenly he put his arms around me and i wanted thomas.
do i like thomas? because it seems like i dont want any guy to touch me except thomas?
[ Answer Question | View Answers (2) ]
|