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can we be friends??
ok so me and my boyfriend broke up and im over him in a romantic way but i still wanna be friends he hasnt talked to me sine we broke up but i wanna talk and i wanna be friends
how do i do that without seeming needy and desprate like i want him back because i dnt
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its pretty hard to be friends with someone after youve broken up with him. just be simple and honest, dont get wordy. tell him that you still value your friendship, and even though you are no longer interested romantically that you still want to be friends and be able to chill no worries. he should understand as long as you dont beg him or get emotional, guys dont really know what to do in those situations besides be an ass. goodluck :)
x sweeethoney
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hate to say it, my boyfriend did the same thing to me. i didnt let him keep me on the back burner.. and i wouldnt talk to and or respond to him once period. i wanted him out of my life... its the way it goes unfortunately, especially if one wants to be done and the other still wants to have something, they cant keep talkin to you as friends, it makes it even harder on them and wanna move on.. its gonna take a while till you can be friends again, just give it time.. its hard but you gotta understand it. but a text now and then or message askin how hes been is prob ok
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The best thing to do for now is give him some space. The break up is still fresh and if he's not talking to you right now it's probably because he feels uncomfortable about it. Give him a few weeks then slowly introduce yourself back into your circle of friends that you both have. This way, there will be other friends around and it won't be so uncomfortable for him. Hang out with your friends and him and let him know you just want to remain friends.
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yes you can but wait awaile to get over each other
- Samantha White a 14 yr old
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