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two different worlds
16/f
well, lets call him 'george'
george is a really cute puerto rican kid thats in one of my classes at school. we dont have assigned seating but we sit next to each other in the same seats everyday. im really into art and i did his backpack for him and he loved it. and now he seems to flirt with me a lot but he has a girl. im really starting to like this kid.
but you see, he's kind of a 'gangster' or whatever the hell you'd call it. people usually classify me as a stoner white girl (you know, beach, surf, weird jewelry, crazy hair) and we're so different. and it seems like when hes with his friends he doesnt want to acknowledge me, but when we're together we always talk and stuff. i dont know what to do!
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Try to get him away from the other girl and try to get him to stay aroud you more. I'm sure that he will stay around you more often and get to like you!
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It sounds to me like this guy is a one-class friendship. Meaning you two have a good friendship in one of your classes because you don't have the pressure of either of you's friends around you so you don't have to act a certain way. I always hated these because it seemed so awkward anywhere else besides that one class because that's when you're both around your seperate friends and stuff. I think you're pretty much stuck in friend zone for now, until he decides to treat you otherwise in front of his friends. Sorry dude, I know how it feels trust me, I've been there :( I hope I helped out a bit
-jessica
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There may be an 80% chance that he wants to get to know you more than as just a friend. Sometimes opposites do attract. However, he does have girlfriend and you want to respect that. You don't want to be the cause of a break-up. The fact that he doesn't acknowledge you around his friends may be because he is insecure of himself and cares about what his friends would say if they saw you 2 together. That's something he'll outgrow over the years. Try dropping small hints that you're into him. If he backs off a little bit, that means he doesn't see you that way;continue to keep it friendly if that happens. If he doesn't you have a chance at a relationship.
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