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should i ?
15 female.
okay, so i have a huge crush on my best guy friend, and he knows it. me and him are really chill with each other also, were very open with eachother. (hes 17 btw and ive known him since i was 12, and ever since then we've been really tight) sooo heres the thing:
he always tells me how gorgeous and sexy i am,
and he says he likes me but he doesnt want a gf right now, and i was like thats str8 okay i don mind being jus his friend.. but the thing is..
everytime me and him chill we end up kissing or doing something. and hes gone pretty much the whole way except sex, and hes always telling me how he wants to have sex with me and all that stuff and how like awesome it would be and etc.
and even though i want to, i havent let him.
i just dont know if i should.
cause i wanna be with him as bf and gf, but idk how to do tht. and also idk if i should continue messing around with him or stop and just be normal friends? PLEASE HELP!!
(:
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if you really like him i suggest stoppin the hookin up thing, and just tell him straight up he can either date you or get none. because if he just wants sex hes probably manipulating you, making you think he likes you just to get what he wants. so put him to the test.
and also, if you want a relationship dont go all the way with him. physical involvement should come after the relationship because it takes your relationship to a new level. but if you start on that high level how much higher can it go?
i hope that makes sense and i hope it all works out :)
x sweeethoney
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it sounds like he is trying to use you.
its ok to mess around but not intill you guys make it offical,
thats cool that you guys can be honest and everything. you should talk to him and see why he doesnt think that you to should go out. make sure you guys go out so that way he cant hurt you.
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