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wanting THAT boy.
so everytime i get drunk i flirt of course!
i hook up with diffrent guys..
and for instance one time i hooked up with this guy and i called him thomas but thats my other friends name..
i hooked up with thomas two times and i enjoyed it so much because he wouldnt force me to do anything. it was the best.
at a party two nights ago i was flirting with this one guy and he was feeling me up and down then suddenly he put his arms around me and i wanted thomas.
do i like thomas? because it seems like i dont want any guy to touch me except thomas?
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its hard to determine if you just want someone lustfully or actually do care about them, especially when youre sexually involved. the physical elements of a relationship can only last so long, then it fizzles. so what if youve already taken care of the physical part, what happens next? so i say you hang out with him sober, talk to him, go do somethin he likes. if you can hang out with him without having sex with him and you still think you like him, then its gravy. :)
x sweeethoney
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i'd say that yes, you do like thomas. i would contact thomas and ask him out to a movie or something. see if you really do like him - you'll know because you'll get the butterflies in the stomach, you'll want to talk to him everyday and everytime you leave each other you'll wish you didn't have to. for now, do your best to stop fooling around with other guys - it will help clear your head about whether you really like thomas. hopefully you and thomas really enjoy each others company too and can maybe start to date. he's seems like a nice guy and someone who would be good for you (the best guys to date are the ones that show respect to you, like not forcing you to do anything you don't want to do). if you have trouble with fooling around with random people then it may be a extra good idea to try to hook up with thomas (your likely needing to fill an emotional void - these emotional needs are probably making you want to fool with random guys - you probably just feel good to have someone like you and you think by fooling around with people that they like you). if you can be in a relationship with thomas hopefully you'll feel liked by him and that will be enough.
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